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Nice People Thread Part 9 - and so it continues

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  • GDB2222
    GDB2222 Posts: 26,258 Forumite
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    Not you - it's the soap dodgers above who need to wash.....

    No, I think you were right. I feel refreshed. :)
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Did you ever read a series called The Dark is Rising, by Susan somebody?

    I read them all as a child, and they were brilliant.

    Yes. :). But later.

    I saw an advert yesterday for a film of the mortal instruments, so am reading the first one of those this afternoon.
  • PasturesNew
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    Not you - it's the soap dodgers above who need to wash.....
    When I was growing up we had "bath night" on Sundays. Just once a week it was.
  • silvercar
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    GDB2222 wrote: »
    That's interesting. Who drew up the will?
    GDB2222 wrote: »
    Silver, thinking about the wording of the will, I think it's confusing because I don't think it does what it says it does. That's why I asked who drew it up.

    I think what you have is a bare trust. Even if the children are not supposed to have the capital until age 25, as sole beneficiary and over age 18 they can require the trust to be broken.

    I would be very inclined to hand it over to them and tell them to stick it in a stocks and shares ISA until they want to buy a house. Point out that they can't spend it twice.

    Alternatively, invest it on their behalf and don't tell them about it.

    Parents' solicitor drew it up, he is also one of the executors.

    Given the right people will get the right money eventually under this one, I'm inclined to let it be.

    I wouldn't want to hand it over to them because that goes against the express wishes in the will, even if the wording is dodgy.
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  • silvercar
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    When I was growing up we had "bath night" on Sundays. Just once a week it was.

    I have a theory that the more you wash, the more you need to wash. A bit like hair getting greasier if you wash it too much.
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  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    How about putting it in premium bonds? Then there's no issue with interest.

    You could also put the premium bond certificates (or details of whereever the money is invested) in an envelope with a copy of the will, copy of the letter from the executors, and a document signed by you setting out that this money is held by you in trust for DS1 and DS2 under the will of John Smith, so there's no doubt later on.
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • PasturesNew
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    3rd meal of pakoras.... only one more lot to go.
  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    silvercar wrote: »
    I have a theory that the more you wash, the more you need to wash. A bit like hair getting greasier if you wash it too much.

    OH and I went a fortnight without washing at all when we were in the Gobi desert - no water to spare, you see. We certainly didn't not-need-washing after that.....

    Next place we were in after that was a very, very cold Siberian lake, part of the rift that makes up Lake Baikal in Russia. We swam in that and used our totally-eco-friendly soap, and it was lovely to be clean. OH did claim it had changed his gender, though.
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    As I don't go out and never meet people, I only really need to shower when I go out in public :)

    So that's once a week for a quick food run ....although I actually shower about 3x a week.

    Oh goodness, I clean for me.


    I think I have been clear on my love of ritualistic, meditative, soul restoring bathing.

    Very, very much looking forward to the new bathroom being finished. :o
  • PasturesNew
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    Oh goodness, I clean for me.


    I think I have been clear on my love of ritualistic, meditative, soul restoring bathing.

    Very, very much looking forward to the new bathroom being finished. :o
    I've no bath though .... so it's in, wash, out, done.
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