Just need to get this all of my chest

paulineb_2

Faith177 wrote: »

I turned 27 in March.

Just sick of feeling like this

You have the power to change your life even if you don't see it

Its very easy saying you are stuck, but theres always a way

and if you knew that you hubby was going to be away for most of the week when you married him, you've had time to adjust

No its not ideal, but you can build a social life when hes away and work towards a better future together

I spent years of my life in a rut due to unsupportive GPs and not having the confidence to change things

And Im 17 years older than you are

Sometimes we need to give ourselves a massive kick up the backside, realise that life isn't ideal but make the best of what we have

mgdavid

barbarawright wrote: »

Is there a particular reason why you can't live nearer your husband's work? It doesn't sound as if you are very attached to where you live at the moment?

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Faith177

paulineb wrote: »

You have the power to change your life even if you don't see it

Its very easy saying you are stuck, but theres always a way

and if you knew that you hubby was going to be away for most of the week when you married him, you've had time to adjust

No its not ideal, but you can build a social life when hes away and work towards a better future together

I spent years of my life in a rut due to unsupportive GPs and not having the confidence to change things

And Im 17 years older than you are

Sometimes we need to give ourselves a massive kick up the backside, realise that life isn't ideal but make the best of what we have

Originally he was coming home 3 nights a week which wasn't too bad but just recently he has had some staffing issues so now can only manage 1 night a week if he's lucky. This has only happened recently and we don't know how long it will last but it looks like it will be a while.

I get very upset when we have made plans to do something when he comes home and something happens which means he has to cancel. I don't want him to know I'm upset as he feels bad enough already without me acting like a child and getting upset over something outside of his control.

Also my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks after the wedding which has knocked me for six. She is being very upbeat and luckily is doing ok atm but I'm worried about what will happen with her treatment further down the line.