Wife cheated - Can it ever work out?

mucklebones

Toonsy wrote: »

I've asked her what brought it on and a number of things cropped up like loneliness and boredom whilst I'm away.

How does she find time to be bored? I have a nearly 6 year old girl and I would have loved the time for boredom in the last 6 years lol.

I do not understand the loneliness part either, there are plenty of groups to take young children where there are people to talk to.. why did she have to choose a male and have sex with him in order to satisfy her loneliness??

Just dont get it.

devildog

mucklebones wrote: »

How does she find time to be bored? I have a nearly 6 year old girl and I would have loved the time for boredom in the last 6 years lol.

I do not understand the loneliness part either, there are plenty of groups to take young children where there are people to talk to.. why did she have to choose a male and have sex with him in order to satisfy her loneliness??

Just dont get it.

Perhaps you will never get it unless you have walked in their shoes! It is tough!

System

mucklebones wrote: »

I do not understand the loneliness part either, there are plenty of groups to take young children where there are people to talk to.. why did she have to choose a male and have sex with him in order to satisfy her loneliness??

Maybe being a parent wasn't enough?

spender

You can be in a room full of people and still be lonely