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Mentioning children at interview
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I am perfectly within my rights to ask those questions. I may not be allowed to make a judgement based on them which is a different matter. However You would never know.
Have you considered that any and all of the answers you're given can change shortly afterwards?.....................I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
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Quizzical_Squirrel wrote: »If I were the interviewer and your friend clumsily contrived to get her children into the conversation, I might assume that I'm being forewarned of a potentially high rate of absence. That there's a reason why she wants this fact up there and prominent right from the start.
If she managed to do it in the normal flow of conversation or by taking her cue from a child's photo on my desk, I would probably interpret it as relaxing small talk, a nice attempt to break the ice and bridge the gap between us.
So it depends how she handles it.
Exactly this. Works the other way as well.0 -
The former.
Could you show me the law that states Im not allowed to ask if a candidate has children then?
http://www.mtu.edu/equity/pdfs/whatyoucanandcantasklongversion8-12-04.pdf At the bottom of page 2.
Not only that, you have the potential to make someone feel very uncomfortable by asking personal questions.0 -
Have you considered that any and all of the answers you're given can change shortly afterwards?
Of course they can and whilst I may ask these questions they wouldnt be the deciding factor in my choice. One of the biggest things for me, as we offer ongoing training is my perception of their ability to fit in with my current employees. Attitude and flexibility I also rate highly. I have both single and married people work for me.0 -
Georgiegirl256 wrote: »http://www.mtu.edu/equity/pdfs/whatyoucanandcantasklongversion8-12-04.pdf At the bottom of page 2.
Not only that, you have the potential to make someone feel very uncomfortable by asking personal questions.
Thats an american document, not UK and also its not a law.0 -
Georgiegirl256 wrote: »http://www.mtu.edu/equity/pdfs/whatyoucanandcantasklongversion8-12-04.pdf At the bottom of page 2.
Not only that, you have the potential to make someone feel very uncomfortable by asking personal questions.
I think that document relates to US law. You're still correct though0 -
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Of course they can and whilst I may ask these questions they wouldnt be the deciding factor in my choice. One of the biggest things for me, as we offer ongoing training is my perception of their ability to fit in with my current employees. Attitude and flexibility I also rate highly. I have both single and married people work for me.
Which of the following fit in with your current employees and which don't?
Black people
Women
LGBT people
Scottish people
Single men with children
People with elderly dependents
Tall people
Fat people
Young people
People with disabilities
People with ginger hair.0
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