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Weekly Flylady Thread 10th June 2013
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Pigpen - I think you've been more than patient re OH's ex! I don't think that there's a jury in the country that would convict you........
Nice day here - away to mums later. Not looking forward to it. Thanks to sis we are in a hotel in the back of beyond - and she's not coming until tomorrow.
I'm away for some breakfast and to put some washing on!
See you on Sunday! Have a good weekend.
Pigpen - will be thinking of you this weekend as I suffer in Stockport with all my relatives....:jFlylady and proud of it:j0 -
Pigpen - they were only seeing each other 3 months? That's barely a one night stand! What in earth are they still in touch for? I'm not surprised you're hopping mad about it. Blokes are a bit useless - they often don't have the skills to finish with someone they're in a relationship with, let alone someone they're not. Don't know what to suggest other than "create" some kind of scenario where he has to change his number
and help him to lose hers in the process of moving his contacts
Not that I would ever do anything so underhand, you understand :rotfl:
So we are watching bob the builder and having brekkie. Quite tired as couldn't sleep again last night - been the same all week but I do have episodes like this from time to time, and they generally stop of their own accord...
I'm going to tackle the lists today, although we have got a friend over later this morning.
Just finish my cuppa then will go get dressed...Bossymoo
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morning all
weve got the sun today by the looks of it so wm is loaded
Skint glad you heard from them, i got a message to say im testing bin bags next so saves me buying a few. hopefully once you get on for baby testing youll get offered other stuff as well
CY positive thoughts for you re your DH job and ofsted
PP i really dont know how you havent flushed his phone down the loo already:mad:
hugs good wishes and positive vibes where needed
going to ring mil in a bit and see if she needs anything doing this morning ill be with her most of this afty so wont get much done here if she needs the morning as well
just got to declutter DS2 grab a coffee delete some junk emails then make a start
Living room of Lushiousness and Hallway of Happiness
done
Kitchen of Klutter and Dining room of Despair!
Clear the table
mop the floor
Drag everything out of the junk cupboard.. wipe it out and put back the bits you are keeping.. Get rid of the things you will never need or use!!
HHI
Bedroom of Duvet-nia & Landing of Loveliness
Remove anything that should be elsewhere.. your bedroom is NOT a shed!!
still got a stash of chocolates and sweets from christmas while in there they last but if moved out they'd all be long gone. i bring out a few as and when.;)
Bathroom of Bubblovia and Sparkling Study
Clean the floors
Get rid of those nasty germs off the telephone, keyboard, mouse, monitor, sockets and switches.
Declutter the pc desk
HHI
HHG.. if you have nice weather pot up any plants that need redoing, get rid of some of those nasty weeds.
The Land of 'Spare Oom' and the neighbouring Land of Child Grot
Wipe windows, pc's, screens etc
Wipe away any sticky messes and grub-spots
my list
cut front hedge
sort wood to make shelves for spare room
do ironingSPC~12 ot 124
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Morning all
Hugs, vibes, sticks, congrats and :coffee:for all as my brain hasn't woken up yet
I'm so glad its Friday. I'm shattered, and looking forward to a lie in tomorrow (ex is coming Sunday since it's Fathers Day so I'll go and see my dad when DD gets home since she is making the gift). I'm going to bed at my normal time and I'm asleep within minutes of my head hitting the pillow, but I'm feeling like I've not slept at all
DD has asked if she can do a picnic for Sunday so I'm going to go and get the bits today to save going tonight or tomorrow when it'll be heaving and like locusts have hit the shop. I'll just have to make sure that I get decent dates on the stuff. And since there will be left overs due to packet sizes, I'll be having a nice lunch Sunday tooI think I'll book a delivery for Monday though, we need long life milk, and cordial, and I need to get a couple of bigger bottles of water for DD to take on a trip on Wednesday. I just hope the weather is nice for it.
If its gone its done or doesn't apply
Mad Monday ~ Living room of Lushiousness and Hallway of Happiness
30 minutes to spare
Clean any glass, pictures, windows and mirrors - make them sparkle sparkle!!!
Dust or polish furniture.
Got an hour
Check for cobwebs and get rid..
Wipe down the inside of the front door and windows - make these shine..
Wash windows
Tootling Tuesday ~ Kitchen of Klutter and Dining room of Despair!
30 minutes to spare..
Clean out drawers and filters on the big appliances and the kettle!
Got an hour
Sweep and mop the floor
Shine the grotty windows, make them sparkle and let in the light!
Extras
- Deweb the downstairs of the house!!
- Scrub down the woodwork
Only got 15 minutes..
30 minutes to spare..
Find 10 things to get rid of!
Got an hour!!
Vacuum the landing and bedroom.. starting at the bottom of the stairs!!!!
Remove some dust bunnies and wipe over the light shades
Extras
- Clean the windows
Got 30 minutes to spare..
Clean/vacuum the floors
Shine the bath,toilet and basins etc
Twinkle the tiles
Got an hour..
Get rid of those nasty germs off the telephone, keyboard, mouse, monitor, sockets and switches.
Make the mirrors sparkle in these rooms..
Extras
- HHI
- HHG.. if you have nice weather pot up any plants that need redoing, get rid of some of those nasty weeds
Only got 15 minutes..
Strip the beds that need doing
Spend half an hour doing something for yourself!!!!! even if it is just sitting out in the gloaming with a cuppa.
Got 30 minutes to spare.
Find the floor.. books on shelves, toys in boxes, games in cases and restacked.
Vacuum new found floor
Wipe windows, pc's, screens etc
Got an hour..
Wipe away any sticky messes and grub-spots
Make sure the drawers are all orderly.. nothing dangling out!
Drag the junk out from under the bed and put it in its proper places!
Extras
- Spend time with loved ones...
Errands - HB, charity bag drop - delaying until next week due to the weather. I'd rather put it off then spend £4 on busfare!
Ironing
Laundry - lights / dark / blankets x 2
HHG - this won't be happening until it stops raining.
Paid Stuff:
Collect books (2 to go, both arranged for today) - Also need to collect schools at hometime Monday.
Look into POB stuff / get postcards with info printed on / recanvas using postcards
Orders delivered - 1 remains, arranged to be delivered tonight.
Accounts (EOY figures 11/12, cycles: 4/5/6/7/8/9/10/11/12/13/14/15/16/17/18/1/2/3/4)
General:
Beds made FSS
Washing up FSS
HHProject FSS
HStuday TFSS
Finances FSS
Sort cards for July/August - Birthday x7, Anniversary x2
Check school website for info (Just discovered DD's secondary school update their website with info a lot more regularly than her primary school ever did and I thought following their twitter feed would be enough!:o Adding this to my dailies list!)
Frog list:
Paid Stuff : Accounts / Tax return / Tax credits
Appointments for: Opticians / Dentists
Kitchen: Demould kitchen ceiling / Wash walls /Clean seals & drawers / Clean light
Livingroom:Shredding / Wipe gloss work down
Master bedroom:Sort out smoke alarms / Clean under bed
DD's Bedroom:Put up shelves & fill with decor stuff in cupboard / Clean underbed
Think I'll go get sorted and hit Mr A now parents arrive en mass after putting the kids in school so I can get done and out again. Can you tell I hate shopping in store?
:wave:
Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!0 -
Pigpen, when you go around the house today collecting all the washing, could you not accidently gather his phone with said washing and put it all on a very hot wash. That way phone will be ruined and he will have to get a new one. You could also before you put it in the wash take SIM card out and put the whole phone in to the machine in pieces so that the sim just disappears? It could in theory disappear down the bit by the rubber seal in the door!
I know this works as accidently put my mobile in the wash years ago and it was truly broken. You shouldn't have to put up with this silly behaviour and he should be putting you first.
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Today is not going well. I have mixed up the time of my nail appointment and was deep in the woods walking our canine visitor when they rang me to ask where I was. I'm now back and realise that DD2 has got swimming today and she hasn't taken her kit in. I have to be in work in ten minutes so I had better get it up there now.0
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First I shut the computer down without grabbing the shopping list DD made on mysupermarket for me so had to wait for it to boot up to get the list and now I've been distracted by reading something online... still haven't made it to Mr A. I need to go now, and it looks like I'll have to wear my coat as its getting darker by the minute
Must remember to go and collect a customers book as well, which is in the opposite direction to Mr A :wall:
Right, I'm shifting myself otherwise I'll still be sat here tomorrow :rotfl:Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!0 -
Good morning everyone well this morning has not got off to a very good start although the sun is shining so determined to turn today around. I got up in grumpy mood and rushed around getting kids organised to get ds to school and dd to toddler group only to discover that her group is not on today. So far today I have checked Mr A price (£6.10 in vouchers), checked bank, moved money around and paid the rent.
I need to go and collect DM at lunchtime so I'm going to do an hours cleaning before me and dd head out in the car.
Planned list for the next hour is:
Dust and deweb kids bedrooms
Dust and deweb in the living room
Hang some washing outside and put another load in the wm
HH declutter in the living room
HH declutter in the kitchen
Make the beds
I will be back later to update on my progress for today.0 -
Hi
Hope all is going well.
Sat here for some daft reason feeling miserable, just given myself a talking to 'why am I miserable' and I couldn't come up with any reasons what so ever, daft.........I have NOTHING to be miserable about, except the weather..............
Pigpen, I agree with the loosing of the sim card, or just insist he deletes her number, you ring up his service provider and suggest that (x) relevant number is a pest caller and you want it blocked......I am sure you have over the years had enough arguments with 'officialdom' to do it.
Bossy glad ds love the school, sounds like the right school.
I forgot last month to pay my credit card bill,:o:o got the letter last night Dear Mrs Kaz, blah blah, not paid your bill, it is going to cost you £35.99 in charges:eek: blah blah..........so put on my humble & sorry voice, rang customers services, grovelled a bit, humble , sorry, not done that before, been busy at work, 6 mins later get the £35.99 charge dropped.........:D
Daily stuff done
Going to hoover the whole house in a bit and pull out the beds, and get all the bit out.
Post father's day card
Shopping list made.
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Kaz well done on getting the charges on the CC late payment dropped. i did that years ago with same result but learned my lesson ive set up a DD to pay amount in full now so it wont happen again. hope the sadness goes away soon.
nicki hope the day gets better
Bossy glad ds is looking forward to his big school
got to nip in the attic quick and find a dress for one of the dolls im giving the school at lunch time.
had a busy doing nothing morning
rang mil, i wasnt needed this morning, sorted parcel im supposed to have already posted will do it while im out this afty. sorted book ive been promising someone at school for weeks, ordered new filter system for fish tank. you watch the last remaining goldfish will die now!
right ive got 20 mins to get changed find dolls dress wash up and hang out contents of wm. see you later this afty.SPC~12 ot 124
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