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I'm not giving up, I'm starting over
Top_Girl
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I have this week given up on an extremely destructive quasi-relationship.
It has wrecked my head and broken my heart. I've got into debt over this man and put a good two stone on comfort eating over him.
Well no more.
I am going on a big girls night out tomorrow, finishing the junk food etc off on Sunday and then starting Monday am is a new Top Girl; one who respects herself, her bank account and her body in equal measures.
Wish me luck please MSE people?
It has wrecked my head and broken my heart. I've got into debt over this man and put a good two stone on comfort eating over him.
Well no more.
I am going on a big girls night out tomorrow, finishing the junk food etc off on Sunday and then starting Monday am is a new Top Girl; one who respects herself, her bank account and her body in equal measures.
Wish me luck please MSE people?
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Wow! You brave, exciting woman!
All the best of luck with your new life. No looking back!0 -
Go you!
Good luck, i wish i had some of your bravery and strength!:coffee:0 -
Go girl, go!! Well done you - and have a wonderful weekend - and a wonderful new life!0
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The very best of luck but I don't think you'll need it somehow - you sound absolutely determined
Go you :T0 -
GOOD LUCK! And well done you
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well done I am sure you will suceed!!!i came into the world with nothing,and guess what? i still have it!!!:p0
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Thanks everyone. I have so many good things coming up; I have an amazing child, loads of plans with friends when he's with his dad (not the destructive one, thankfully) and so much to *hopefully* keep me busy.
I feel like I've finally wised up and it feels amazing.0 -
:beer:
This is the first day of the rest of your life. You sound liberated and so happy and I have no doubt you will go on to have a brilliant future. Good luck to you and all the best.The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.0 -
Wow.
What an amazing and inspiring person you are. I'm subscribing to your thread and will join in your journey.
I've recently ended an abusive relationship, and am feeling liberated as well. No looking back!!!
Looking forward to your updates Life is a gift... and I intend to make the most of mine :A
Never regret something that once made you smile :A0 -
I split from my ex 9 months ago and have done really well getting my finances sorted but while saving £'s in the bank unfortunately I saved lb's also. So think I'll join you, if I may, on the no junk food from mon?
Good luck Hun xPAD 2023 Debt total as of Dec 2022 £18,988.63*April £17,711.03
Halifax CC £3168.21Halifax loan £6095.47
Car finance £7639.02
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