Just need to vent

Goldiegirl

I have a group of five or six friends and we meet periodically for a meal out.

Sometimes one person might miss a meal as they are on holiday, or something like that, but they turn up at the next meal.

I'd be really upset if I realised they'd all met up without me, and I hadn't been told of the arrangements.

So I do understand why you are disappointed.

I think you should speak to the person in the group that you feel you are closest too, and see why you have been left out. Perhaps there's been a misunderstanding of some sort and hopefully your can clear the air. I think this Eurovision thing sounds like a crock, I think there's more to it than that. But do it in real life, not on Facebook.

But if, after all that, you still get signals that they don't want you in the group, then sadly I think you'll have to move on.