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  • ifstar
    ifstar Posts: 489 Forumite
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    Well she hasn't came online yet.....
  • tattycath
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  • mandi
    mandi Posts: 11,932 Forumite
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    fluffnutter wrote: »
    Fourth date? I'd have banged him weeks ago :D

    Wus ..: .... :D
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    tayforth wrote: »
    Of course we'll all want to know! Oh, please do tell afterwards OP :D

    Im sure people will also want to know if it was any good:)

    If she doesnt come back online some people might think theres a 3 day shag a thon going on.

    Not me though.
  • tayforth
    tayforth Posts: 1,884 Forumite
    paulineb wrote: »
    Im sure people will also want to know if it was any good:)

    If she doesnt come back online some people might think theres a 3 day shag a thon going on.

    Not me though    .

    Of course not. Nor me. :rotfl:
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  • gettingbetter
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  • Maureen43
    Maureen43 Posts: 518 Forumite
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    Oh my word at your anticipation!!

    The date is tonight...
  • Maureen43
    Maureen43 Posts: 518 Forumite
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    paulineb wrote: »
    OP, I couldnt believe you were asking it either to be fair. To be honest, its totally your call. Some people might think its too soon, some people think not. But its your life and its up to you what you do.

    I know. I am 44 for goodness sake. However the rules have changed since I was last single (over 20 years ago) and this is all new territory for me
  • BugglyB
    BugglyB Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    The rules:

    - do only what you want to do, with whomsoever you choose
    - be as safe as possible while still having fun
    - don't listen to what anyone else thinks

    Now, you didn't need a young 'un to tell you that, did you :-)
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    tayforth wrote: »
    For me, I probably couldn't sleep with someone so early on. But that's just me and what I'm comfortable with. I take sex pretty seriously and see it as an expression of love.

    This sums up how I am too. Being a cautious person by nature it takes me a little while to develop feelings for someone and feel ready to take that next step. I think it is nice to enjoy getting to know a person and the romance of the initial weeks together. A gradual build up to being intimate can be exciting.

    I respect though that we all have different approaches and each to their own. Maureen I hope you enjoy your date tonight :)
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