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affordmylife

personally I would wait until I absolutely had to. was completely desperate to rip his clothes off type of stuff.

I would just go with the flow if you get me.

summerof0763

Tenyearstogo wrote: »

It would also be wise for the OP to checks she has the all clear with her own sexual health.

I agree hence if they know each other well enough to have sex, then they both need a clean sexual health check, and talk it over before having sex, yeah might be a passionkiller, but am sorry I would not be happy to find out weeks/ months years later than he/ she passed something on because it be a passionkiller, because barry white was doing his crooning.

Maureen43

The dates have been spread out over about four weeks as we have both been away.

I know I have a clean bill of health as I got myself checked out after my marriage ended. Plus will always use a condom..

Have invited him round for a meal and will see where the evening takes us. Yikes.

hm71_2

safe sex is key after watching that show on bbc 3 last night and seeing what other folk get up too! i entered back into the dating world after 20 years of marriage i too had a check as hubby had been 'shopping around' but go with what you feel comfortable with.

Joons

Oh how exciting, as others have said see how it goes, if you want to then do it, if not, don't, you can still enjoy each other without the sex.

Bazey

Go for it!! I doubt sex has changed too much since you last had some, but might be worth doing some research on t'interweb. Remember to cook a light meal, don't want to be feeling bloated if you're gonna have a jump.

We'll all be thinking of you, some of us more than others.

Alikay

Don't forget to get a couple of good DVD's in just in case things don't get carnal this time

Hehe! Reminds me of an evening about 35 years ago when my parents were away on holiday, and Colin-with-the-Cortina came round for a meal. He'd thoughtfully brought a new LP with him (Wishbone Ash IIRC ) in case the evening didn't progress as anticipated, bless 'im:rotfl:.

Errata

Do you really want hanky panky with a bloke you've only known for 4 weeks? If he's up for it, he will have a history of doing that with many other women and you'll just be the latest in a very long line of women who can't keep their knickers on.

Orlando_Virgin

Errata wrote: »

Do you really want hanky panky with a bloke you've only known for 4 weeks? If he's up for it, he will have a history of doing that with many other women and you'll just be the latest in a very long line of women who can't keep their knickers on.

That's a bit stereotypical isn't it? I slept with my first girlfriend after about 5 dates (3 weeks) and I was with her for 6 years. Everyone has a different pace, doesn't necessarily mean a lower standard.

System

Do you really want hanky panky with a bloke you've only known for 4 weeks?

Depends who it was.