It's all gone wrong....new house 2 months

paulineb_2

carl_t wrote: »

Its a joint account, we share it...

Which gives neither of you any privacy if you actually want to talk about anything on here.

carl_t

Tbh honest, i agree with you to a certain degree....
I am glad in a way he did come on here as the majority of people have given real advice and i hope this would make someone who thinks the majority of the time with irrational thinking would have made him see the right way through his own feelings...

So thanks

clairehi

Run like the wind, girlfriend.

If he's done this once he'll do it again and next time it'll be nastier. The fact you've gone back to him has sent a message you will tolerate his behaviour.

paulineb_2

carl_t wrote: »

Tbh honest, i agree with you to a certain degree....
I am glad in a way he did come on here as the majority of people have given real advice and i hope this would make someone who thinks the majority of the time with irrational thinking would have made him see the right way through his own feelings...

So thanks

If thats how you feel about the way he thinks, why on earth have you bought a house with him and why are you staying with him?

Change has to come from within, it wont come by people giving advice on the internet, it might start the process off, someone deciding to make changes, but the issue is, people tell their version of one event, so unless they elaborate, we dont know the other persons perspective.