Separated, how much should I provide?

aaa13ljsldjfldskj

ignore me - too late to this party...lol

JackRS

dRic40 wrote: »

University is classified as Advanced education so if you wish you do not need to pay maintenance for that child.

maintenance is paid for full time education up to the age of 20.

Thanks dRic40 and welcome, Yes that's correct, I'm paying CSA of £650pcm for my son who is just 19 and at college where he attends 3 days a week, the others are study days but he works as a waiter on most of his days off. I have been advised that there's a chance that his course may not qualify however actually I am not concerned about that as I want to pay that amount until he finishes in June this year. I pay some money directly to my daughter at uni to help with her living costs, this is voluntary. Up to September last year I was paying voluntary maintenance to my ex of £500pcm additional to the CSA.

I wanted to reply quickly to you as you were so kind enough to post but also some on here may comment that you haven't read the all the posts etc etc but who could really read it all from the beginning now so please don't take it the wrong way if anyone says anything. everyones and any opinion is welcome here but a do try to discourage bickering between people as it may discourage someone from offering a view.

JackRS

dRic40 wrote: »

ignore me - too late to this party...lol

Well there's no party yet but I may just have one when it's over and I'll invite everyone who has contributed on here, not that they'll be able to make it, but you never know?

:beer:

Mojisola

JackRS wrote: »

Well there's no party yet but I may just have one when it's over and I'll invite everyone who has contributed on here, not that they'll be able to make it, but you never know?

:beer:

We'll all raise a virtual glass to you and you'll probably be able to hear the cheering wherever you are in the country!

ampersand

That exchange between Jack and dRic40 is entirely typical of the person we care about on this Thread.
Glad you're on board dRic40
#
I strongly hope there is reason at the re-hearing vs. Landlord AND the Big One.

Compline last night - Jack, your name on my list, again:-)

kelpie35

JackRS wrote: »

Well there's no party yet but I may just have one when it's over and I'll invite everyone who has contributed on here, not that they'll be able to make it, but you never know?

:beer:

Can't wait for that day to come Jack.:j

I will order my new frock and stilettos in readiness. :rotfl:

aaa13ljsldjfldskj

JackRS wrote: »

Thanks dRic40 and welcome, Yes that's correct, I'm paying CSA of £650pcm for my son who is just 19 and at college where he attends 3 days a week, the others are study days but he works as a waiter on most of his days off. I have been advised that there's a chance that his course may not qualify however actually I am not concerned about that as I want to pay that amount until he finishes in June this year. I pay some money directly to my daughter at uni to help with her living costs, this is voluntary. Up to September last year I was paying voluntary maintenance to my ex of £500pcm additional to the CSA.

I wanted to reply quickly to you as you were so kind enough to post but also some on here may comment that you haven't read the all the posts etc etc but who could really read it all from the beginning now so please don't take it the wrong way if anyone says anything. everyones and any opinion is welcome here but a do try to discourage bickering between people as it may discourage someone from offering a view.

I noticed the length of the thread after posting lol. I hope you get it sorted.

justme111

Haha if you dare to - there are many of us looking h for an excuse to have a party so if you extend the invitation to significant others of participants i may well come . After all i have known you (albeit virtually ) for longer than i kmown my boyfriend! !

justme111

Re solicitors - thank you for posting about it , useful to know and nice to read something positive. People dont challenge them because they are in a vulnerable position when they need their services and have other priorities. It has taken you a couple of years to challenge one as well , am I right?
Besides not many would be as articulate or sharp as you in identifying and challenging not right things with billing

spender

Going through my wardrobe, planning my party outfit. I contribute 12 ciders and a 12 pack of sausage rolls, (member of the divorced club)