Depression II

Tulip

Sazbo wrote: »

:rotfl: :rotfl: mmm blue smarties!!! _party_ :dance: :easter_ba
Let me try and distract her... Here, Tiffy Tiffy, here Tiffy, there's a good Tiff. Come to sazzy.......... :D

:rotfl:

Katie

Tulip

:hello: everyone,

Hope all is well

Rose: thinking of you,hope you recover soon

Sazzy: Hi hope you are alright and are having a nice weekend,pity that we got rumbled by Tiff over the blue smarties though sends you some red smarties instead he he

It is so hot today,I felt so tired in the heat and just flaked out on my bed and slept for 2 solid hours.It surprises me how I can sleep just like that but the hot weather just knocked me out.

SF hope you are ok too


hope Mclaren is ok

*hugs* to those that neeed it

lots of love and light,

Katie xxx

Tulip

Tiff wrote: »

Hi katie!:hello:
Hope you're well angel?
(See sazzy - see - I told you this would happen! :eek: )
Katie, now don't you go encouraging the sazzster with the blue smarties - we could end up with a national shortage!!!:eek:

You have no idea the amount of therapy I needed the last time this happened! I've only just got my fur dry from all the crying.
And yes hun, it seems that Tiffy is finally losing the plot!:rolleyes:
Take care hun.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Hi Tiff,

I just gave out some red smarties instead

Katie

andipandi_2

Hi all,
yep rather hot today,been plastering stairwell,got half done and done myself in also.

anyone have a view as to whether it would be pertinent to attend ex MILs funeral on tuesday,been on my mind but i think ex would play up,thing is though its not about her,its about myself paying due respect to ex MIL.

some info here ,one of my children had op and my eldest nearly drowned in sea , when i found out and asked why i wasn't told about daughters op(so i could go visit)and asked for details about eldest nearly drowning was told that neither was any of my business,this is often how my ex sees things so if i ask to turn up i know what response i will get so am thinking of turning up and then leaving quietly after funeral,

don't fry in the heat folks

Kind regards

Andy

Sazbo

andipandi wrote: »

Hi all,
yep rather hot today,been plastering stairwell,got half done and done myself in also.

anyone have a view as to whether it would be pertinent to attend ex MILs funeral on tuesday,been on my mind but i think ex would play up,thing is though its not about her,its about myself paying due respect to ex MIL.

some info here ,one of my children had op and my eldest nearly drowned in sea , when i found out and asked why i wasn't told about daughters op(so i could go visit)and asked for details about eldest nearly drowning was told that neither was any of my business,this is often how my ex sees things so if i ask to turn up i know what response i will get so am thinking of turning up and then leaving quietly after funeral,

don't fry in the heat folks

Kind regards

Andy

Andy, I think you've called it right, turn up and leave quietly. It's always a nightmare trying to do the right thing, but that's what I would do.

Love,
Saz x

andipandi_2

Sazbo wrote: »

Andy, I think you've called it right, turn up and leave quietly. It's always a nightmare trying to do the right thing, but that's what I would do.

Love,
Saz x

it extremely hard to do anything right at times actually with regard to ex,i do feel compassion though because it must be awful to have to suffer like that,i have tried hard to keep channels of communication open but since the brick wall that was built(not by me) when one of my girls was sectioned for anorexia(last year) (at one point i didn't know whether my daughter was alive or eating or wasting away-(even more)),i did consider not referring to the anorexia on here but i'm comfortable now with it and daughter is at least home and maintaining her weight( on a knife edge mind)

Sazbo

andipandi wrote: »

it extremely hard to do anything right at times actually with regard to ex,i do feel compassion though because it must be awful to have to suffer like that,i have tried hard to keep channels of communication open but since the brick wall that was built(not by me) when one of my girls was sectioned for anorexia(last year) (at one point i didn't know whether my daughter was alive or eating or wasting away),i did consider not referring to the anorexia on here but i'm comfortable now with it and daughter is at least home and maintaining her weight( on a knife edge mind)

I'm sorry to hear about your daughter, Andy. But your instinct is to want to keep communication channels open and I'd say that's all any of us can do. I hope she continues to improve.

Love,
Saz x

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Gillette, Glad to hear that things are starting to get back on track with you and your girlfriend

Why are you afraid to look for a job? You've studied so hard to get good qualifications, it's your chance to sell yourself to a potential employer.

Do you not have any friends that live nearby that you could go out for a drink with one evening?

:T on getting the fireplace fitted :T I bet you're glad it's done

Hope your day has been OK.

xxx

rose07, (((HUGS))) gosh rosie, it sounds like you should probably get checked out at A&E, your injuries sound quite serious.

I heard about the 3 deaths at the TT it's very sad I'm so sorry to hear about your friend as well. It's understandable that you're feeling the way you are. Death affects people in so many different ways. Sometimes people just don't cry.

Why were you arrested?

Oh hun I'm so sorry to hear how low you are feeling right now. We are all here for you, don't forget that.

Thinking of you xxx

imported_goldie, :T What a huge positive step you have taken :T that's great! I think it will be really good for you to meet others and socialise and also it will give you a purpose. Not all actors/actresses are extrovert/confident people. Some of them use acting to help them overcome shyness/confidence issues. Go along to one meeting and see what you think. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. If you really don't like it you don't have to go back you can just tell them it isn't for you and look for something else. The main thing is you would have gone and tried it.

Katie, :hello: How has your day been? I think you said you were going to your parents for lunch. Did you enjoy it?

andipandi, I think if you want to go to your ex MILs funeral then you should do so. Everyone has the right to pay their respects. If your ex really makes a fuss tell her you will sit at the back and leave as soon as it finishes. It seems a very callous act if she were to tell you not to go.

I'm sorry to hear that you weren't told about what had happened to your daughters. At the end of the day whatever has happened between you and their Mother, you are still their Father and should be told about such serious things ASAP. She's obviously very bitter/hurt but she should put that aside when it comes to your children.

I hope your daughter who is suffering from anorexia continues on the road to recovery.

slowlyfading

Rose, I have no words to make you feel better. I am on msn if you need a chat. -hugs- hang in there. x x

slowlyfading

Tulip wrote: »

SF hope you are ok too

I'm okay thanks, how are you?
sf x x