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  • Tiff wrote: »
    Hi lrs!:hello:
    How are you angel?
    It's good to hear everything is going well for you hun._party_
    Good for you, lrs!action-smiley-033.gif
    That's the best kind of reason for not posting angel and I wish you well. Keep us posted ok?wink.gif
    Thinking of you angel - take care.hug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx

    Thanks Tiffy

    Most of the time that i do feel bad is when I am not with me girlfriend (now fiance) So when i wasnt with her i get all mopey, miserable and just start feeling generally low but i look to the future and we are going to Australia in 22 days :beer: and moving in in September. I just feel bad because i really wasnt as depressed as i thought i was, i was just missing my girlfriend.


    xxx
  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    Let_Robinson_Sing

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    :T to you and your girlfriend :T I am really pleased for the both of you.

    You're so lucky to be going to Australia. How long are you going for?
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • Let_Robinson_Sing

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    :T to you and your girlfriend :T I am really pleased for the both of you.

    You're so lucky to be going to Australia. How long are you going for?

    Thanks very much RBK :o

    from 28th - 21st of July then on 23rd we are going to Haverfordwest to have a holiday with her parents :cool:
  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    :j I hope you both have a great time and enjoy yourselves :)
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    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • slowlyfading
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    slowlyfading, It sounds like you're having a lovely time back at home. That's great news that you haven't had the urge to cut.

    Thanks, i thought it was pretty good too! Hope you've have a good day :)
    sf x x
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  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    Ethel, I'm sorry to hear that you've had some bad news. I can understand your reasons for not wanting to post about it. I do hope you are OK though. Just remember that we are all here for you (((HUGS)))

    Tulip, How are you?

    Sorry to hear that you locked yourself out of your flat. At least your Dad came to the rescue :)

    What are you watching on TV tonight?

    Hope you've had a good day.

    slowlyfading, It sounds like you're having a lovely time back at home. That's great news that you haven't had the urge to cut.

    imported_goldie, Do you have any interests/hobbies that you could do to keep yourself occupied? What about playing a sport or going to the gym. They say exercise is good for your mood (not sure how true that is though).

    geminilady, It's nice to see a post from you. How are you doing? How are things with you?

    Hi Rbk,I am a bit down at the moment seem to be having more down days than up.I don't really want to go back on medication but if i get too low will go see the doc.Sad today because it is my birthday (just) and "N" did not even wish me a happy birthday until i text him at nearly 9pm.I think you asked once before who "N" was,to keep it short he is a text friend who i met online over 4 yrs ago.We have only met in person twice.I would like a relationship with him but he just wants a text friend but even the text friendship is not as i would like.I always text him when it is his birthday and i mentioned a week or two ago the date of mine but still did not get a text.It is not a lot to ask but he could not even manage that.I have said before on here that i know i should stop texting but he is all i have.I suppose when he texts i kid myself he cares so it fills a need if that makes sense.
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    geminilady wrote: »
    Hi Rbk,I am a bit down at the moment seem to be having more down days than up.I don't really want to go back on medication but if i get too low will go see the doc.Sad today because it is my birthday (just) and "N" did not even wish me a happy birthday until i text him at nearly 9pm.I think you asked once before who "N" was,to keep it short he is a text friend who i met online over 4 yrs ago.We have only met in person twice.I would like a relationship with him but he just wants a text friend but even the text friendship is not as i would like.I always text him when it is his birthday and i mentioned a week or two ago the date of mine but still did not get a text.It is not a lot to ask but he could not even manage that.I have said before on here that i know i should stop texting but he is all i have.I suppose when he texts i kid myself he cares so it fills a need if that makes sense.

    Aww happy birthday for yesterday Gem *huggeroonies* I know how awful it feels when people forget your birthday... it's happened to me often enuff too :(
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  • Sugar_Coated_Owl
    Sugar_Coated_Owl Posts: 12,379 Forumite
    geminilady, HAPPY BIRTHDAY for yesterday hun (sorry I didn't realize it was yesterday) hug2zi2.gif

    I'm sorry to hear that this guy is being so inconsiderate and uncaring towards you. If you told him that it was your birthday the other week then IMO he doesn't have any excuse for forgetting. He could have put it in his phone or something. Hun, you say you would like a relationship with this guy but if this is how he behaves as a friend what is he going to be like as a partner? You deserve to be treated better than this. I recently ended things (about a month or so) with my boyfriend (although he didn't act like one) and he was all I had in life and yeah it was very hard but I think there comes a point where enough is enough and you know deep down that this person is never going to be the person that you want them to be. You have to be strong and take control of the situation. I know it's easier said than done though. I would not text him, wait for him to make contact with you. That will surely show whether he cares or not. How would you feel about that?

    (((HUGS))) you're a great person, don't you forget that.

    xxx
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • queensway_boy
    queensway_boy Posts: 5,990 Forumite
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    And this is for your friend for forgetting th_smack.gif
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Everyone,

    Hope you are all ok,I am fine today :)

    Gemini Lady: Happy belated birthday for yesterday,a pity your friend didnt text you happy birthday,its not a lot of money to spend on a text.

    I am going to my mums today for dinner :)

    hugs to those that need it

    Let Robinson Sing: Congratulations to you and your girlfriend on your engagement thats wonderful news :) Have a lovely time in Australia when you go :)


    lots of love and light,

    Katie xxx
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