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Time to be completely honest
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It's true what they say about how you can choose your friends but not your familiy (or OH's family in your case!). What a !!!! he sounds!0
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Completely agree Z - as soon as I got the first blackmailing text I knew I couldn't let it lie as he'd forever be there holding 'things' over my head. I'm just really blown away by how horrible someone can turn out - it's really shocked me. Deeply. He could have said that he really didn't want to tell her because of the hurt etc and I probably would have agreed, but obviously he's not that kind of person. His daughter was crying again for him yesterday - he doesn't ring at all. I just told my friend I'd had a falling out with him and now am have nothing more to do with him - I will explain fully when I can. OH has been lovely, but I know that things will be building up inside him so am prepared for the outburst when it comes. We've been getting on so much better as well.
The egg hunt is at 11 today- will just ignore !!!!face if he's there. My mum is coming tonight so I can have tea with her and a glass of wine and sort the worlds wrongs!
Their family meal starts at 6ish so the kids will be late to bed but never mind
Sea xxxCCCS DMP:Feb 07
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blimey, what a time of it you are having.
Happy Easter, though, and I hope you have a good day today xxxSuccessful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
Great that your mum is coming to see you and hope that you feel better havng talked things through with her...hope you have a good day today, despite it all. Big hugs!Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.0
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Poor Sea...as I said glad DH is on your side and it's nice that your mum's coming to visit that'll be nice...take care xx0
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How you doing Mrs?Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.0
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Hi
Went for a drink with OH last night- was really nice.
Feeling all sorts at the moment- have found out various things that have been said about me and I really don't know who or what to believe anymore. Am feeling really betrayed so am jut trying to step back from the whole situation and leave it. Difficult one.
Sea xxCCCS DMP:Feb 07
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really sorry you are having such a naff time.
I hope that the family come around eventually
chevI want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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really sorry you are having such a naff time.
I hope that the family come around eventually
chevI want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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Hey Sea, what a horrible thing to be going through. Glad OH is onside and I hope things pan out in your favour; I am sure they will. Len xThis is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0
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