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  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,872 Forumite
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    74jax wrote: »
    I'm chuckling at wondering what age condoms aren't required. I can't wait til we can do away with them...... We'd be thinking 'ooooo freebies'!!!!! :rotfl:

    If you're in a committed relationship then unless needed for contraceptive purposes then not needed. Personally I haven't needed them for many years and then not regularly. :o:o
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
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  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
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    If you're in a committed relationship then unless needed for contraceptive purposes then not needed. Personally I haven't needed them for many years and then not regularly. :o:o

    I thought it was obvious :) Do many people in their 40s in committed relationship still use condoms?
  • geri1965_2
    geri1965_2 Posts: 8,736 Forumite
    The flip flops thing is stupid - a) how would you get the right size for everyone b) I would guess a lot of women might be wearing tights and c) flip flops are hard to dance in. Waste of money IMO.
  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    FBaby wrote: »
    I thought it was obvious :) Do many people in their 40s in committed relationship still use condoms?

    I'm 37 and we're still in the 'condom' using stage. Bring on the 40s :T
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    The past three weddings I've been to have all had these baskets and one had the flip flops. I'd say about 80% of the flip flops were used as when I went to get some for wearing when playing lawn games outside there were none left to fit me so I went barefoot.

    The baskets have been useful. We used a sewing kit to sew up my husbands trousers when he managed to split them, hairpins, hair spray and straighteners. They do come in handy! Plus if you use the type of items in them yourself you're not wasting money as you can take what isn't used afterwards.

    Plus aren't the over 50s/60s the group who tend to be catching stds now? So perhaps some people do need condoms pointing out to them no matter what age they are!
  • killielila
    killielila Posts: 298 Forumite
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    cant believe the negitive comments here ... my cuz and i planning her wedding and will be doing this .... and dare i say before i get shot down in flames ill do similar at my daughters 18th in sept ... INCLUDING condoms
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    2024 let's do this !!
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,872 Forumite
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    killielila wrote: »
    cant believe the negitive comments here ... my cuz and i planning her wedding and will be doing this .... and dare i say before i get shot down in flames ill do similar at my daughters 18th in sept ... INCLUDING condoms

    I'm not goin to shoot you down but think it a sad reflection that it would be something appropriate at a birthday party. :eek:
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • themull1
    themull1 Posts: 4,299 Forumite
    its a good idea, but i wouldnt leave paracetamol where anyone could take it, and not the condoms. But everything else i would do.
  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    FBaby wrote: »
    I thought it was obvious :) Do many people in their 40s in committed relationship still use condoms?

    And 50's! Some of my customers do only because I've found the empty packet in his pyjama pocket :eek:
  • Bennifred
    Bennifred Posts: 3,986 Forumite
    A small sewing kit and a few safety pins would be a really good addition to the basket. At the last wedding I attended one of the guests had a (needed!) shoulder strap on her dress which broke - it could have ruined her day if another guest (obviously a Girl Guide in a previous life) hadn't come to her rescue with a safety pin.
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