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bagpuss38
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I'm in shock, just discovered that my hubby of 4 years and partner of 10 years, has signed up to a dating website.
I managed to log into his profile (easy password)
He has stated that he is married but is looking for a discreet no strings relationship!
I checked his e mail and he has had a couple of conversations with 2 women.
I just dont know what to say or do.
Is this cheating, or is the thought of someone else cheating.
I dont know why he would do this.
I managed to log into his profile (easy password)
He has stated that he is married but is looking for a discreet no strings relationship!
I checked his e mail and he has had a couple of conversations with 2 women.
I just dont know what to say or do.
Is this cheating, or is the thought of someone else cheating.
I dont know why he would do this.
SIMPLY BE-££577.11:eek:
Very BNPL - £353.00
Very BNPL - £353.00
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Switch his settings so he is looking for big gay bears!
Sorry I don't have any helpful advice. Hugs and I hope someone comes along that can offer some more help with this horrible situation.
And YES, it's cheating. Thinking of someone else is one thing. You can't commit thoughtcrime. But going on a dating agency and chatting to people on there? That is premeditated, taking steps to make real cheating happen.Public appearances now involve clothing. Sorry, it's part of my bail conditions.0 -
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Saturnalia wrote: »Switch his settings so he is looking for big gay bears!
Sorry I don't have any helpful advice. Hugs and I hope someone comes along that can offer some more help with this horrible situation.
And YES, it's cheating. Thinking of someone else is one thing. You can't commit thoughtcrime. But going on a dating agency and chatting to people on there? That is premeditated, taking steps to make real cheating happen.
Have been on and changed all his settings to homosexual!
It appear he didn't get a full memerbership but just a day pass!!!!!!SIMPLY BE-££577.11:eek:
Very BNPL - £353.000 -
worried_jim wrote: »He wants easy quick no strings sex, Simples.
Might as well get a prostitute:mad:SIMPLY BE-££577.11:eek:
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Set up your own profile using an alter ego.
Start up a conversation. Build it up. Arrange to meet.
If he shows up you've got your answer.0 -
I don't see the point in doing any complicated private detectiving - he either is cheating on you, has, or is planning to at some point. You need to confront him. Of course he will probably be upset/angry that you have been looking through his online accounts and emails but that doesn't make his behaviour any better, there's clearly discussions that need to be had!Savings target: £25000/£25000
:beer: :T
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If you've got no kids, divorce him. It's only going to get worse."Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.0
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If he isn't getting well fed at home, he'll get a takeaway!Eat vegetables and fear no creditors, rather than eat duck and hide.0
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