dating websites.

yvonne13_2

Sorry to hear that OP but confronting your husband is not going to do anything, you need to join the website and catch him out like another poster suggested then you'll have your true answer.

fluffnutter

yvonne13 wrote: »

Sorry to hear that OP but confronting your husband is not going to do anything, you need to join the website and catch him out like another poster suggested then you'll have your true answer.

To be fair, I think she already knows the true answer. Hubby's on the look-out for a bit of extra-curricular activity. Problem is... what to do about it?

yvonne13_2

fluffnutter wrote: »

To be fair, I think she already knows the true answer. Hubby's on the look-out for a bit of extra-curricular activity. Problem is... what to do about it?

True.....I just hope OP's strong enough to see through his crocodile tears when she confronts him.

Cherry_Bomb

yvonne13 wrote: »

True.....I just hope OP's strong enough to see through his crocodile tears when she confronts him.

This is exactly why the OP should catch him out rather than confronting him.

Confronting him he's obviously going to lie about his true intentions.
"I wouldn't have actually gone through with it" and blah blah blah

Arranging to meet your dirty little secret and instead watch your wife rock up?

I can only imagine his world would fall out his !!!!.

Priceless.

System

yvonne13 wrote: »

Sorry to hear that OP but confronting your husband is not going to do anything, you need to join the website and catch him out like another poster suggested then you'll have your true answer.

I did that with my ex, he still denied it and got angry at me. I should have dumped him there and then but he ended up leaving me for another woman not long after.

Lance

bagpuss38 wrote: »

Might as well get a prostitute:mad:

Prostitutes are professionals who do not waste time on 'chat' with timewasters who just want talk dirty for free. Is your hubby a great catch that women will dive into bed with? Is he a ladies man with all the chat? Has he got money to date and will he spend it or is he relying on a free day pass for his thrills? Sounds like he wants dirty chat / mails from safely behind a screen as he lives out his fantasy.

If you confront him and he is serious about meeting someone then you will alert him and end up having a row. Best not mess with his profile and alert him, just watch to see his next move and if he is genuine then confront him.

Sommer43

I'd print it off and leave it where he can see it. Without confrontation and let him explain his actions.

For me, this would be the ultimate betrayal. The fact is, he has physically entered his details, written a profile, paid for a day pass, that involves entering sixteen numbers, usually the billing address and the expiry date, plus the CVV code. So, 23 numbers, along with other information about himself and having conversation with just the two women thus far. Yep, a thought process, with intent to deceive you.

I'd leave it stuck on the bathroom door, for when he has his morning dump. Let him explain his actions to you. You don't have to lift a finger apart from press print...

bagpuss38

We have 2 little girls together, i thought we were happy.

As for "not being well fed" i would say he eats to his hearts content!
So a takeaway is unnecessary!

If he is considering it then he is a very foolish man.
As beyond having myself and the kids, he has no friends and no family due to a falling out with them.
The flat is in my name so he would no doubt be homeless to boot!

I'm gonna sit on this and as suggested see what his next move is.

Thats for all the advice.

bagpuss38

23rdian wrote: »

Not very money saving though is it?

Sorry OP but obvious answer is he's frustrated?

Lol no not v mse at all huh, unless he gets cashback or a discount



As i said above, he has no cause for complaints in that department!
Besides even if he was frustrated, is that an excuse?

23rdian

OP, I deleted my original post after thinking it was a bit naughty.

Hope it all works out but...

Truth is, he prob. is happy (enough) but we just get bored having sex with the same person.

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