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lix75

Sorry, but I think it will just go downhill from here, regardless of whether you confront him or not. Can you trust him going forward? I wouldn't...

You have two choices:

Continue the relationship knowing that he might have already cheated on you or he'll start doing it. Can you, would you live with that? Some of us do...

OR break it... wait to see what happens if you can stomach that, or just do it now.

Good luck!


ps. Oh and yes, I would totally create that fake profile and try to lure him into meeting with me. And I would actually take it a bit further and ask out another man from the site - double book them for dinner in the same restaurant and look my best. Find a good looking one who's in just for sex.

Joons

Well I for one am not going to tell you to leave him, yes he's been a complete tool but it's not worth throwing your marriage away with two little girls. You say you thought you were happy, well I don't think you were, or at least he wasn't/isn't. Have you been having problems, sounds like things weren't as happy as you thought. I'm not sticking up for him here but this is not as uncommon as folk might think, and remember, he's been caught, plenty out there who aren't. Men, I think, are quite egotistic and if they feel neglected they think it's ok to look elsewhere (not all men). I think your partner is not happy with the relationship and that is why he is looking, doesn't mean he would cheat, could just be for his own satisfaction so he can think he can still `pull`. There's clearly a problem so you have to have a long, long chat with him to find out what has gone wrong here.