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Should I sell my wedding dress to pay debt?

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  • Chas
    Chas Posts: 1,794 Forumite
    Noooooooo - keep it.

    If you sell it, you'll never be able to replace it. If you sell it, you probably won't get much money for it anyway.
  • newleaf
    newleaf Posts: 3,132 Forumite
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    weller711 wrote: »
    My SIL spent over £3k on hers

    £3K?? For a frock???:eek: :eek: :eek:
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  • Richard_S
    Richard_S Posts: 4,432 Forumite
    immoral,

    Don't sell it, we recently moved house, er well I should say our bankruptcy resulted in us being kicked out, and my O.H's wedding dress appeared from the archives. After 26yrs of marriage and four kids she still looked a dream when she put it on, and when she took it off some time later :D

    It was just another one of those moments that made us realise that debt ranks alongside bowel movements when it comes to the important things in life.

    I'm not sentimental, I'd sell my brother to the highest bidder with no reserve, but never something really important.

    Richard
  • MoaningMyrtle
    MoaningMyrtle Posts: 1,968 Forumite
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    I've still got mine, I wish I'd sold it whilst it was still fashionable. I'd deffo sell it, although you may not get a massive amount of money for it, I don't think they fetch much. Why not have a look on Ebay for completed sales of similar dresses to see how much they go for?
    A minute at the till, a lifetime on the bill.

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  • lynsayjane
    lynsayjane Posts: 3,547 Forumite
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    sorry I'm disagreeing with everyone else and saying keep it. I'm a sentimental old fool (well compared to you IA!) and I'd be thinking of ashleigh or kaytlin wnating to wear it?!?!
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    A wedding is about dresses, cakes, food, music, drinks....

    A marriage is about love, trust, honesty, family.....

    The wedding is over and done with, but the marriage will last forever (I hope :)).

    If you can bear to part with it, and it will make a decent sized dent in your debt, sell it.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • Miss_Scarlett
    Miss_Scarlett Posts: 123 Forumite
    You have the husband, how much more of a reminder do you girls need?? Only kidding, I would sell it too, you have all the sentiment in the world wrapped up in those 2 little girls and your lovely hubby, a dress is a thing, nothing more.
  • southernscouser
    southernscouser Posts: 33,745 Forumite
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    Wow I thought all the women would say keep it!

    I think you should keep it if you want to! How many months is that money gonna knock off your DFD! 1 or 2? :confused:

    Is it really worth selling just for that amount? Only you can make that decision! :)
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    i saw a guy posing in a wedding dress on ebay once it became a bit of a gimmick i think the dress sold for quite a bit ..you have nothing to loose and everything to gain ...and your love is strong you dont need a dress to prove it ...but i would think about a gimmicky idea might get more hits
  • skylight
    skylight Posts: 10,716 Forumite
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    Keep it.

    A £500 dress is not going to fetch a lot on Ebay - even the thousands of pounds dresses don't go for that much either.

    Unless its something very unusual (I am thinking of Red bodice, black trim to match the IA personality!) and unusual will make more money, then keep it. Even if Ash and K (and others???) end up playing make believe in 8 years time its something to cherish.

    Also, your brother bought it for you as a wedding present. Have you sold other wedding presents on ebay (Or perhaps I shouldn't ask you that!)

    Keep it!
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