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Should I sell my wedding dress to pay debt?

I'm toying with the idea of selling my wedding dress on ebay to raise money towards debt. We got married 5th August last year and it's been in a dress bag gathering dust ever since. I washed it today (In the washing machine :eek:) and it came out better but still with stains around the bottom but as I'm tall (5'9) I though anyone shorter than me could easily have it altered and therefore the stains removed....
The dress was a shop sample and £345 reduced from £545 but we didn't actually pay a penny for it as my brother bought it for me as a wedding present.


My question is.... sentiment? Or money towards debt? :confused:
Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
Que sera, sera. <3

Should I Ebay my wedding dress to go towards debt? 99 votes

Sell it!
83% 83 votes
Keep it!
16% 16 votes
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  • newleaf
    newleaf Posts: 3,132 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker PPI Party Pooper
    I'd sell it. You have photo's and memories, why keep the frock?
    Official DFW Nerd No 096 - Proud to have dealt with my debt!
  • kazl_2
    kazl_2 Posts: 181 Forumite
    Mine's been gathering dust in the loft for nearly 20 years - sell it!
    Debt at lightbulb moment (Dec 06) £60,502
    Debt Jan 11 £18010
    70% repaid
    Debtfree date: December 2011
    Proud to be dealing with our debts :D
  • Seaxwyn
    Seaxwyn Posts: 4,896 Forumite
    I agree with Newleaf - sell it.

    They really have no further use once the big day is over. My mum kept hers and it ended up in our dressing up box.
    Total debt: 1 January 2007 £[strike]49,387.79[/strike] 1 January 2012 £[STRIKE]19,312.85[/STRIKE] 1 August 2012 £11,517.62



  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    I've still got my wedding dress 14 years after getting married. I've never even looked at it since the day I wore it. Sell it, it'll be put to must better use paying off your debt. x
  • savvykaz
    savvykaz Posts: 890 Forumite
    It's a really difficult question to answer!!!
    We got married in August 1990 and I've STILL got my dress!!! What have I done with it? Nothing, but not sure I could still sell it - I know, sentiment is a bit daft, I've got my lovely photos, but I still can't bring myself to part with it.
    DMP starts June 2012, £38,180.

    Balance June 2015 £26,046 (paid off 32%)

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  • southern_chick
    southern_chick Posts: 549 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    sell it.

    ok really don't want to come across as synical here (honest), i wish i'd sold mine years ago but just ended up throwing it out with the rubbish the day my divorce came threw, it was kind of symbolic but what a waste i could have e-bayed it!! that was obviously before i found MSE!!!

    again sorry to sound synical!!

    SC XX
    slowly working towards being MF one small over payment at a time :T
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Sell it if you get a worthwhile price for it -you'll have the happy memory of being able to reduce your debt, but if you can only get £50 for it, keep it.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Definitely sell it.

    I've been married best part of 20 years, and my dress has never been out of it's bag.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • cuppatea_2
    cuppatea_2 Posts: 24 Forumite
    My mum ended up cutting up her dress and making dusters from it!

    You've got all the lovely memories, but if you really want to keep something how about the tiara/veil - then you can still keep a part of your day, and sell on your dress.
    Pay off as much as you can in 2011 challenge - £359/£10,000

    sealed pot challenge no 1144 - target £1000


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  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    Only sell it of you think you will get a decent(ish) amount of money for it.

    My SIL spent over £3k on hers and she still refuses to sell it despite them having to sell their house to pay debts off (false logic if you ask me).

    I sold mine xx
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