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Do you REALLY know your babysitter? I want to forget I saw this.

Warning: Video of a 9 month old child being hit by babysitter.

I hope she gets jailed.

Poor kid had it happen several times. :(

Forgive the 'Sun' link, I saw this after someone else had posted a link elsewhere about something else and this was on the page
too.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4783525/babysitter-in-russia-savagely-beats-nine-month-old-child.html

It's a blessing we can't remember being very young.
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  • trishmci
    trishmci Posts: 108 Forumite
    I had to stop watching this half way through, I feel physically sick that anyone could treat a child like this.:mad:
    Busy mum to 3 gorgeous girls :D
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    That is horrendous. When I opened the link and noticed the babysitter was Russian, it reminded me of the cruel treatment towards a child that I witnessed whilst visiting Moscow years ago. There was a tiny child begging on the metro system, he couldn't have been more than three years old. He was approaching adults and all were stern with him and dismissive of his plight. Not one seemed concerned about him. He approached an older guy and this moron picked him up, smacked him and literally threw him aside. No one batted an eyelid, not one person. I tried to approach a lady who was working there but she began shouting at me and told me to go. I couldn't find anyone who would help :(

    I hope this babysitter gets all that is coming to her for treating an innocent child so badly.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • aliasojo
    aliasojo Posts: 23,053 Forumite
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    It's hard to understand why some people are not protective of the young.

    I can understand some people not being 'parental' i.e they don't feel the need to procreate nor are they maternal/paternal, but to not feel any need generally to show care and in fact feel it's ok to cause harm to a little one that is clearly so dependant...well that's beyond my understanding.
    Herman - MP for all! :)
  • It's impossible to understand.

    If you hate kids, don't work as a nanny!

    Poor little mite. thank goodness the parents trusted their instincts instead of her.
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  • System
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    I haven't clicked on the link because I don't think I could watch the video. When the Baby P case was in the news my little nephew was a baby at the time, and I just found it so unimaginably shocking that someone could inflict those injuries on a baby of that age. I hope this babysitter is jailed and doesn't just jump ship and go back to Russia.

    It must be hard for parents who choose or need to use a babysitter, but hopefully incidences like this are rare :( A Syrian friend of mine told me she wouldn't leave her little boy in a nursery or with a childminder until he was old enough to talk and tell her what happened during the day.
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  • Raksha
    Raksha Posts: 4,569 Forumite
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    aliasojo wrote: »
    Warning: Video of a 9 month old child being hit by babysitter.

    I hope she gets jailed.

    Poor kid had it happen several times. :

    It's a blessing we can't remember being very young.

    We may not think we remember, but behaviour like this can affect how we view life and ourselves as we get older.
    Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    avogadro wrote: »
    A Syrian friend of mine told me she wouldn't leave her little boy in a nursery or with a childminder until he was old enough to talk and tell her what happened during the day.

    I think your friend is very wise.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • OMG I can't even watch that, it would upset me too much :(

    I wouldn't leave my 2 year old with anyone except close family and very close friends.

    If I can't get either of the above, we don't go out. Simple.

    Evil witch, hope she gets a good shoeing or 3 in prison.
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    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    If she is sent to a Russian prison it will be mighty grim. No cushy numbers in their prisons, which is exactly what she deserves.

    I wonder if she has any remorse or understanding of how truly terrified that little kid must have been? To have someone so much bigger than you physically and emotionally out of control inflicting pain on you. Awww that poor little love. I hope they throw away the key on such an evil inadequate.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
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    I'm another who can't bear to watch it. I can't understand why anyone would feel the need to hit a child never mind a defenceless 9 month old baby. Sick and twisted springs to mind.
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