Trying for a Baby Part 9

becca0417

Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD88 RazWaz - 70DPO :cool:
CD59 pinkfluffythings - 44DPO :cool:
CD33 Optimistic mummy - 22DPO :cool:
CD31 PommeVerte - 15DPO :cool:
CD36 teaandcakeordeath - 14DPO :cool:
CD33 Codemonkey - 14DPO :cool:
CD28 Leopardlady- 13DPO :cool:
CD27 Tinkwings - 12DPO :cool:
CD22 ruth26 - 9DPO :cool:
CD19 january23 - 7DPO :cool:
CD34 Trina - 6DPO :cool:
CD23 Birdie85* - 6DPO :cool:
CD23 Claire16c - 5DPO :cool:
CD87 becca0417* – 2DPO :cool:
CD45 Katy29 - 0DPO :cool:
CD31 Skintchick - Awaiting AF :cool:

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD95 Beautybutterfly - Awaiting ov
CD91 Marie – Awaiting ov
CD85 Sidney88 - Awaiting ov
CD50 kte* - Awaiting ov
CD44 Tealover– Awaiting ov
CD35 dustystar - Awaiting ov
CD33 emylou* - Awaiting ov
CD31 maire - Awaiting ov
CD31 G3mmo - Awaiting ov
CD28 Vesper - Awaiting ov
CD26 Angeltreats*- Awaiting ov
CD25 jovie - Awaiting ov
CD25 coops - Awaiting ov
CD24 tia86 - Awaiting ov
CD23 apple*pie - Awaiting ov
CD23 squ1rrel - Awaiting ov
CD23 i love holidays- Awaiting ov
CD20 credit_crunch - Awaiting ov
CD19 chocoholic_chic - Awaiting ov
CD18 Purcy – Awaiting ov
CD14 abis – Awaiting ov
CD14 giarora– Awaiting ov
CD13 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Thriftylass - Awaiting ov
CD12 lilymay*- Awaiting ov
CD9 lilmissmup- Awaiting ov
CD9 atton - Awaiting ov
CD8 Mrs_T_M - Awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD6 TeamLowe– Awaiting ov
CD6 Skaps* - Awaiting ov
CD6 chocgirl - Awaiting ov
CD5 Goodvibes - Awaiting ov
CD4 Lara44 - Awaiting ov
CD4 jammy26 - Awaiting ov
CD4 sjlou - Awaiting ov
CD3 Amy_85 - Awaiting ov
CD3 vic3* - Awaiting ov
CD3 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov
CD3 Elsie37- Awaiting ov
CD3 Kellykins - Awaiting ov
CD1 firefly369- Awaiting ov
CD1 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov

Fannyanna's own special list
CD? Fannyanna - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
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becca0417

Evening ladies!
Sorry I didn't update the list yesterday, busy at the house followed by trying to ensure we DTD!

Welcome back kscarlet, would you like adding to the list?

T2D a cruise sounds lovely

firefly & TCD hugs for BFN/CD1. Horrible

TCD I was hoping I'd be pregnant by my honeymoon too. That was last July. We have a holiday booked next month that we booked in October and again thought I'd be pregnant but I'm not putting anything on hold anymore!

TL very jealous of your NY holiday - I'd love to go there! You are also not an awful person, I would have the same thoughts and have actually about DHs cousin. This TTC lark is not easy. BE easy on yourself xx

Have updated you Claire, do you think you caught it? xx

loulou, T2D did indeed convince me to go private. The NHS well and truly messed up DH's SA, he has to do it again. I was going to make enquiries but luckily our fertility specialist appt went well and they are going to take care of it all for us. Hopefully getting it done on Tuesday

Welcome Angelmommy and starshinning hope your stays are short for all the right reasons :T - let me know if you want adding to the list.

Squ1rrel, lovely to see you. Sorry to hear that you had an emotional appt but I hope it has very positive outcomes for you. I can't help re diets (I'm doing Low GI but haven't lost any weight) but I will be rooting for you xx

Hugs for code 14dpo? Are you hopeful this cycle?

skint sorry to hear you are in pain. Hope resting makes it better. Hope the diet goes well for you also.

katy I have updated you - what CD are you on?

AFM - DTD Friday and yesterday so hopefully in with a chance this month! DH is having his SA this week. Spent all day decorating our spare rooms in new house and have put lovely colour in them all as was fed up of looking at cream walls and waiting to turn it into a nursery in our old house

codemonkey

Beeca - not this cycle. My lp is 15 days, sometimes 16 so AF isn't due yet. But as I had real trouble getting DH to come anywhere near me during ov I think not. Possibly premature to state this but the spotting has been better so far, my boobs haven't hurt as much and my mood hasn't been as black as normal so hopefully moving in the right direction.

Next cycle is to get DH to actually cooperate at the right time. Wherever he talks about us having a baby it takes all of my self control not to scream "we're never going to have a baby unless you stop being a sex panda during ov!"

becca0417

Awwww code!! How frustrating. My DH is usually the same but when we went to the FS on Friday, he saw the follicle for himself. Amazingly we have DTD for 2 days in a row - unheard of previously.
It's horrible and I think gets worse as the months go on because they then think it's not working anyway, why bother.

squ1rrel5

codemonkey wrote: »

Next cycle is to get DH to actually cooperate at the right time. Wherever he talks about us having a baby it takes all of my self control not to scream "we're never going to have a baby unless you stop being a sex panda during ov!"

Sex Panda!!! :rotfl:

loulou123

I LOVE the idea of a sex panda - I might have to start calling DH that, although he'd properly think it was a term of endearment lol.

I'm not sure why he's decided private SA is the way to go, but to be honest I'm just glad he's taken the 1st step in actually "wanting" to get it done, he's looked into it today and the costs aren't too bad, so I'm happy if he is.

Off topic but why do men NEVER think things through? DH has just booked tickets to see a band 70 miles away, with no consideration of how we will get there or home (no good public transport from where we are.) Now he's sulking as he'll have to drive and won't be able to drink!

Mrs_T_M

My GP appointment for the weight and depression is tomorrow at 9:45. I'm already nervous and jittery about having to meet someone new, not to mention actually open up and talk to them. Hopefully either the GP can either help me get the serious help I need to lose this weight (or find out what's keeping me from doing so no matter what I do) or at least point me in the right direction. I may also stop by a local gym and see if they have a pool and if so how much a monthly subscription is to attend. It will have to come out of our already meagre grocery budget, since we can't really cut out anything else at the moment. We have to save enough each month to make sure I have at least £1,000 in the bank by this time next year so that I can apply and hopefully obtain my ILR so that I can actually stay in the country with my husband.

Ok, I'm rambling. I seem to do that a lot when I'm scared or nervous.

TeamLowe

Good luck Mrs TM, you're already making great progress, I'm sure the doctor will be really helpful x x

claire16c

Becca - I honestly have no idea at all :rotfl:

I had no idea & didn't feel any different the month I did get pregnant though & the months I stopped ttcing I noticed 'symptoms' in the same way Skint has described so now I really find it hard to symptom spot! The only thing is slightly more cm than normal after ov but that's it.

We bd 3 times though so couldn't have done much else! Well be in Venice for the next few days so at least that should distract me from the 2ww!

Angelmommy

Thanks Becca - af due tomorrow :-(