Trying for a Baby Part 9

optimistic-mummy

hugs becca .... massive hug to you.... xx

lemonmelon_2

Sending you massive hugs Becca :-( x

claire16c

Oh no Becca.

Are you seeing the FS this week?

becca0417

Supposed to be. Doubt we can go without SA results.

january_23

Congrats to those with positives. Hope you have a smooth pregnancy.
Sorry to those the witch has got.
Also sorry to those going through bad times. Hope things pick up,

AFM I have been reading but been busy and being on a tab find it difficult to answer people. I am reading everyones posts with interest and am learning a lot . FF has decided that I am 3dpo today. That means we BD just once at the correct time because OH wasn't home for a couple of days before ov.

OH also went to the GP and they agreed to test him due to his ops and that we have been trying 6 months now and nothing! I couldnt believe it. We have been given the pot etc and have to pick a day to do it but the fact they are taking us seriously and helping us is such a relief. It's not good we are in this position as we are young however the fact they are willing to test is good. Don't know when the sample will be done but we have been told when we give it in it will take up to 3 weeks to get the results. Seems a rather long time. Can anyone that has gone through this tell me if this is normal? Thank you.

January

Birdie85

Oh Becca, sending you massive hugs. Wish I could come and give you an actual cuddle.

Have they said anything about re-organising the SA?

OH and BZ, totally agree that all of those stupid Mom-Memes should be banned from the whole blinking internet! It's not just that they touch a nerve but they're just so lame anyway! *When* I have a baby I'm fairly sure I'll be satisfied knowing that I love it and think it's the greatest kid in the world without feeling the need to post s**t on FB about it daily!

mincepiemonster

O Becca, this ttc lark is s*it isn't it? Here's a big ((hug))

I agree re the Facebook memes, and DH and I also hate the babygrows which say things like "Mummy loves me" or "I love daddy". In my eyes every baby has the right to a mutually loving relationship with his or her parent(s), so having a mummy who loves you isn't (or certainly shouldn't be!) considered anything special and certainly not Facebook or babygrow-worthy. **puts soapbox away**

Still no sign of AF. The hard thing is that if every cycle is 45 or 50 days, I'll only get 7 "chances" a year and I want 12! Why is it AF always comes when you don't want it - when you've got a holiday or white dress to wear?! I actually quite want AF to turn up now. Sigh.

MoneySavingMamma

MoneySavingMamma wrote: »

I'm going to start poas (ovulation) tomorrow, hcg on Mon came back as 16, so pregnancy over.
So am i right in tlp doesn't count, only bfp? Does tlp mean bd anyway as close to fertile period, and bfp is best days? On tlp means nothing? Thanks x

Hi, i posted this yesterday, can anyone help? Got a tlp on ov test today, does this mean bd for a chance? But bfp is best day?

Birdie85

MSM, the rule of thumb with OPKs is that the line has to be as dark as the control line to be classed as positive, although some people don't seem to ever get a dark enough line (me included) so it's good to go by other things such as CM too. But, as the list says, if in doubt, BD!

MincePie, from now on whenever I see a babygrow announcing that said baby's parents love them I'll think of your rant! :rotfl:

MoneySavingMamma

Does the tlp mean anything over nothing? Or they are both just as negative as each other? Its too much energy to bd every night for a month! 2weeks at a time I can handle! :-)