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Trying for a Baby Part 9

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  • Catloverbex - Never had a cycle this long before, never more than a few days either way. Not getting my hopes up for a shy BFP because you'd assume that it would show at 6 weeks preg?

    Twigpig
    - so should I start temping now? Never been in the realms of temping so not sure how it works, do you know of any good advice websites?
  • ruth26
    ruth26 Posts: 67 Forumite
    Afternoon everyone!

    Fannyanna - I'm the same, definite increase in sex drive just before and the first few days of my period. More so than around ovulation time actually! Not sure why it is, maybe because of an increase in hormones or something? About putting things off in case of pregnancy, we're only on our third cycle of trying but I'm already guilty of doing it. So we're going to book a holiday for October and not dither about it. Also really want to go back to uni in Sept 2014, though that really is dependent on the baby thing!

    Gelly123 - sounds like your grandad had a good send off. Enjoy your luxury pedicure as it sounds like you deserve it.

    Codemonkey - hope Scamp is settling in well. Love the name by the way! Would love to see some more photos when you have the chance.

    blondy24 - hugs for AF, very inconsiderate of it to start before the weekend! Not sure about OPK as I don't use them yet, but someone will advise.

    Beautybutterfly - Not sure about the long cycle... I'm always of the opinion that if something isn't normal for you then it's probably best to get things checked out. Fingers crossed it's just a very shy bfp.

    Babymad - yay for the peak! How are you finding the CBFM? I'm using if for the trial too and LOVE it!

    squ1rrel5 - Slovenia looks beautiful, hope you have a lovely holiday. Hope you're not aching too much today after the gym.

    Purcy81 - grr to rude colleagues! Not sure why some people have to make comments like that.

    catloverbex - glad the silent treatment worked and your oh has booked his tests. If they just did what we asked them in the first place then it would save so much hassle! Good that your bloods have come back normal.

    Had a peak on the Clearblue monitor yesterday and today (CD11 and 12) so been a bit busy :D. Seriously considering using the vouchers from completing the trial on buying one (if it doesn't work this cycle of course! We've definitely put the work in this time). May just order some cheapie OPK first though and see how they go. Hope everyone has a lovely bank holiday weekend. Not got much planned, may have a trip to the sea on Monday if the weather holds out.

    I'll guess 4 BFPs for the month please.
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    Ease my mind
    Roll down the smoke screen
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  • chocgirl_2
    chocgirl_2 Posts: 96 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Can I guess 5 BFPs please?
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    the reason you have an increased drive around your period is apparently because there's increased blood flow to the area so it makes it easier to get turned on and get off ;)

    we have our DIP :D (don't know if i said that) viewed and tried to buy the lovely house but another bid at asking price like ours and they asked us to increase but we said no. feel a bit bad now cos the vendor told me she was 'seriously considering' their offer then we got them into a bidding war, so if it wasn't for us they could have got it for much cheaper.
    they won't regret it though, it is a lovely house.

    4 more viewings this weekend, some of which only have a small back yard so not family homes but we've got years before a family clearly so i can indulge my love of cute little terraces til then :cool:

    i like business class til baby, we have lots of money plans, or at least the petrolhead DH does! once we have a house i've promised he can get a bmw cos he's always wanted one. i've been putting it off because of a)savings and b) it would make it harder for us to survive on one wage. but looks like i'm not going anywhere so he's excitedly looking and doesn't really care about the house anymore, so i can buy what i want :rotfl: x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • BabyMad
    BabyMad Posts: 114 Forumite
    Hi Ruth

    I'm also loving the cbfm! I used the cheap opk's for the first couple of months and whilst they did actually work I found them a lot more hassle to use and wasn't as confident in the results. I much prefer poas first thing in the morning rather than having to start preparing from 2pm by not drinking/weeing and rushing home to use the cheap opk - but then the cbfm did cost £85 with sticks and really does only give the same information but in a much clearer easier way so I suppose it's whether the hassle is worth £80 to you. You should also be able to sell it on afterwards to recover some of the money if necessary.

    I have great confidence in my cbfm and it has made me relax a lot more this cycle safe in the knowledge we will dtd at the "right" time, let's hope the odds are in our favour this month!?

    Off to get busy ;)

    Teamlowe - i'm just in the process of selling a small mid terrace house which was a very happy home and good investment for 9 years so I can fully understand your love of terraces, happy viewing and I hope you find something you like!

    I'm also guilty of not doing things "because I might be pregnant by then" and we have agreed to book our holiday last minute for the first time this year "just in case" :cool:

    Happy long weekend folks x
    Got married October 2012 :j
    Hoping to conceive 2013 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Testing List

    Winner of April BFP predictions (5): ME (again!!) and Angeltreats. Well done!

    May Graduates:

    May BFP predictions
    Thriftylass - 3
    Chelseablue - 4
    BabyMad - 4
    samtoby - 4
    ruth - 4
    sjlou - 5
    catloverbex - 5
    picklekin - 5
    Goppers - 5
    faithhope - 5
    chocgirl - 5
    Becca - 6
    Elsie - 6
    tia86 - 6
    ttc39 - 6
    alice31 - 6
    Kalama - 6
    TCD - 6
    purcy81 - 7

    Thread Graduates:
    fluffysox BFP 06/02/13
    toothfairy BFP 06/02/13
    Hopelass BFP 10/02/13
    MiffyMoo BFP 11/02/13
    Lemonmelon BFP 14/02/13
    maire BFP 19/02/13
    Trina BFP 20/02/13
    AngelMommy BFP 21/02/13
    TTC40 BFP 21/02/13
    Lilymay BFP 04/03/13
    Retepetsir BFP 05/03/13
    abis BFP 12/03/13
    amy_85 BFP 14/03/13
    vic3 BFP 23/03/13
    KScarlet BFP 26/03/13
    credit_crunch BFP 31/03/13
    Optimistic_mummy BFP 16/04/13
    Lilymay BFP 20/04/13
    emylou BFP 21/04/13
    amyloofoo BFP 24/04/13
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Two week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD55 Bekkikay - 41DPO :cool:
    CD35 atton - 24DPO :cool:
    CD41 Kellykins - 18DPO :cool:
    CD30 lilmissmup- 17DPO :cool:
    CD27 Bigzippy - 15DPO :cool:
    CD27 Katy29 - 12DPO :cool:
    CD33 Angeltreats*- 11DPO :cool:
    CD24 Tinkwings - 10DPO :cool:
    CD26 Picklekin - 10DPO :cool:
    CD25 Gelly - 9DPO :cool:
    CD29 mincepiemonster - 7DPO :cool:
    CD23 sjlou - 6DPO :cool:
    CD26 Purcy – 6DPO:cool:
    CD36 Claire16c - 4DPO :cool:
    CD21 chocgirl - 4DPO :cool:
    CD18 jammy26 - 3DPO:cool:
    CD89 giarora– Awaiting AF/BFP :cool:
    CD41 BeautyButterfly - ?DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone
    CD99 i love holidays- Awaiting ov :o
    CD73 dustystar - Awaiting ov :o
    CD63 Skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD59 lilian– Awaiting ov :o
    CD48 ema_o- Awaiting ov :o
    CD42 apple*pie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD40 bambisbelle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 squ1rrel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 KimLouise - Awaiting ov
    CD29 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 Sophiasmum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Goodvibes* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Mrs_T_M - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 Sapphire - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 McRach– Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Goppers - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Ejecoms - Awaiting ov:o
    CD21 Catloverbex - Awaiting ov :o
    CD19 Elsie37- Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 tia86 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Skaps* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 cwtw - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 firefly369- Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 any name will suffice - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 january23- Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 TeamLowe– Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Thriftylass - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 BabyMad* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 ruth26 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Alice31 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 TTC39 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Codemonkey - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD7 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 becca0417* – Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Faithhope – Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 Chocoholic_chick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 twigpig - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Tashatutuw - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Kynthia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 blondy24 - Awaiting ov :o

    :T TCD's own special list :T
    CD36 teaandcakeordeath - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Thriftylass great news on all the BD! Hope it works :j

    t2d love the business class til baby rule!

    faithhope I would also say that OPK is positive - get BD!

    BabyMad hope you caught it too!

    Hugs for AF blondy

    Fannyanna I am terrible when AF starts. Probably a mix of dtd and limited bd after ov!!

    TL exciting stuff about the house! Hope you love one of them :D
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hope everyone is enjoying the lovely weather today! I had the day off so of course spent it in a pub garden with a friend, really nice way to finish the week. Going to go shopping tomorrow to buy stuff for the garden, I didn't want to spend much on it before because of baby stuff but I figure screw that!
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Todays makes ready for the party tomorrow!!!
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    If you can think it........it will happen
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