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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 12

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 12 June 2013 at 7:55AM
    June :-

    yay.gif= 7 Days AF

    th_smiley_flower.gif= 14 days AF

    confetti.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifyay-smiley-1.gif= 30 days AF

    woohoo-dancing-banana-smiley-emoticon.gif = target achieved




    Barny1979 11/28 yay.gif

    CuppaTea 9
    /24
    yay.gif

    FreebyFifty 8/25 yay.gif

    Gien 3
    /20


    Imagnu /15

    Joanne 7/29 yay.gif

    Lilith 2 /TF

    Mackeroo 9
    /12
    yay.gif

    Maman 4/10

    Miss Piggy 3/25

    MrsDee /14

    Muser 8/29 yay.gif

    Pozza 9/TF yay.gif

    Satchmo 9/29 yay.gif

    Shaggy 10/17 yay.gif

    Slowdown 7/22 yay.gif

    StupotStu 5/TF

    The Boss 6/30

    Tracy 6
    /20

    41 and I know it 8/30 yay.gif


    Everyone Welcome!

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've got your AFDs wrong!!!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,883 Forumite
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    MAman I love how you're normally the last one in.

    Hugs to those who are about.

    Been mostly AF for a goodly while, small glasses just now and then, hope you're all grand? I read, but with new (ish) crazy busy job rarely get time to post. Without out this thread, I'd not have this job.

    Keep at it chaps, tis life changing ;)

    X

    Great to hear from you pippi.:) It's fantastic how far you've come since we first 'met'.

    I still don't sleep well (hence logging on here late) but after recommendations am giving herbal Nytol a try. I did manage to get off a bit faster last night and sleep was more restful. Maybe I'm imagining it but who cares?;)

    I know I'm doing far better than measly target suggests. I feel I've returned to being a fairly normal, social drinker but staying in touch on here means I stay that way and have a few AF nights as well. That's got to be good!:D
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    edited 11 June 2013 at 10:49AM
    shaggydoo wrote: »
    :hello::hello::hello: Glad to read all is well in your world. Your kids must be getting quite grown up these days?:)

    Indeed they are lovely girl! Ones now at uni and I'm just about to bring him home, the other entering her final year at school before uni.

    All is indeed well. I've a lot to thank many of you for, yourself included.
    :A
    maman wrote: »
    Great to hear from you pippi.:) It's fantastic how far you've come since we first 'met'.

    I still don't sleep well (hence logging on here late) but after recommendations am giving herbal Nytol a try. I did manage to get off a bit faster last night and sleep was more restful. Maybe I'm imagining it but who cares?;)

    I know I'm doing far better than measly target suggests. I feel I've returned to being a fairly normal, social drinker but staying in touch on here means I stay that way and have a few AF nights as well. That's got to be good!:D

    Aye, that's very true - a huge change here from almost two bottles of wine a night, to a more peaceful existence. Well done you too, how we feel about ourselves and how we're doing, is hugely important and thanks for the recommendation, might give that a go.

    I'm with you on the social side of things too, and still log my AFD's on my phone, old habits die hard :D and these day's if I have a drink its social, if I begin to think about drinking alone at home again, I give myself a shake and I walk away. (mostly that works :)) or I quickly find a book.

    I've too random a life/job to get on often enough to put targets up but I think of you all often.:T I should pop by more :D

    I'm often up late too, a wise man (RA) once told me the 'washing machine head that never switches off, should be embraced, not blotted out' These days I read or write a lot, reading and wine just don't mix!

    Hope you all have a great day!!

    I will be doing the challenges with you all :A


    :A
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • joanne109
    joanne109 Posts: 270 Forumite
    Could someone please send the wagon my way.

    I had to do some after work sopping yesterday as I'm not getting time for lunchbreaks. As always with after work shopping I boght myself a treat aka a bottle of red :mad:

    So I have flopped the SNC this week and I'm going to be at least 10% under target for this months challenge.

    Hey Ho - onward and downward

    Joanne
  • Hey joanne. Damn those blasted statistics! This is real life and real people, no-one fails here. We are alive and part of a big picture, so everyday is different. You are not a failure, you made a little mistake and we all do that. Forgive yourself, start again and move forward. It is impossible to be perfect so we aim to do our best in an imperfect world. Hugs to you and never give up as that is worth much more than any figures, totals or achievements. Keeping trying is what keeps the human spirit alive.

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  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    6AF please Shaggy and another for the SNC please gien

    I did my exercise dvd at 8pm last night, so easy to not drink!

    Have cooked a curry for tonight, no beer in the house, so should be AF :)

    Tracy
  • gien
    gien Posts: 1,649 Forumite
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    Tuesday check in for the SNC


    Joanne 1/5 - come on, hop back on the wagon with me
    41AIKI 2/5 -
    Muser 2/5
    Gien 2/4
    Shaggy 2/5
    Tracy 2/5 - well done on the exercise video
    Freebyfifty - /3
    Slowdown 1/4
    Maman 1/3

    We're coming up for the witching hour, so stay strong if you hear the bells and want to be AF.
    I've built in a drinking day as I thought I would be going out tonight but it's cancelled. I'm aiming now to bag an extra AF night
    Trying to keep in budget.

    2270
  • Hi Shaggy 8/25 AFDsplease

    Gien 1 SNC please

    Hey Joanne I have managed to clamber back on the wagon if you would like to hitch a ride with me?
    Journey began May 2013
    Debt paid= £235/£30512
    Buffer = £0/£150
    Weight loss = 10lbs/23lbs
    July AFDs = 2/23
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    9 AF please Shaggy
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    11 AFDs today and also accepted an offer on my house today! :)
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