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The Ultimate Incentive natters on. Part 9

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  • Ah NIM that really is pants. What a great mind set you have.
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  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    NIM I am sorry to hear about your job. Did they give a valid reason?

    The very best of luck with the care home applications. Big hug. I know you must be feeling rotten right now :-(
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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    edited 22 March 2013 at 9:52PM
    Argh, NIM - no way!? That came from nowhere didn't it? I think you'd make a brilliant nurse though for what it's worth so maybe this is a blessing in disguise (cheesy but true). I have no doubt you'll turn this into a positive thing - heck if I can turn my life around and set off on a new career anyone can - I'm the least self confident person ever!

    Excited at the thought of a big meet!! Eep! As you may know I went away on a blogger meet up last weekend and slept in a double bed with a girl I'd just met (who I've 'known' for 3 years) ... yet this would be looked upon as weirder than doing the same with a man I'd just met under the influence of a bottle of wine! It was strange just how much everyone was just as you imagine them, I guess it must be the quality of their writing that lets their personality shine through? Anyway, there were 12 of us, I had met one of them for about an hour two years ago, many had never met any of the others - and yet we had the best time. We were discussing who we said we were going away with - I'd simply said a 'friend' and lots of her friends who I'd not met. Others said they were going away with their 'special internet friends' which I liked haha! Ooh sorry, ramble there.

    Nice to see you back Zig, will have a look at your diary in a min. Your aeroplane story reminded me of our trip back from NY - the man in front of me reclined his seat right back (and I'm 5'11" so it's a problem) - but when I tried to recline my seat to compensate I physically couldn't because the man behind had such a large belly :angry: I was not happy. That's the one good thing about Ryanair - the seats don't move!

    Off to watch you on the telly now Birdie!

    Is that you in the pink coat?! :) What the bejebus was that massive papier mache thing with the eye hanging out?! *shudder*
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  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    Oh NIM so sorry about that :( Horrible job people. Good luck with the job hunting. It would be great to get some different work experience as you say and try to plan a career that you really love.

    Your weekend sounds fab Tete!
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  • Cinny91
    Cinny91 Posts: 6,022 Forumite
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    So so sorry NIM :( it sounds like you're seeing the positive side of it, and hey, it gives you some time at home with Grace too! Hope you find a new job soon :) is there anything you could do in the mean time? Bar work etc?

    Does this mean you're in Tete?! :D I think we scared Zig as she's vanished since we mentioned it! :o

    I saw Birdie too! Stole the remote off OH when I got in with a "this won't take two seconds!" And then he made me properly watch it because of the tax band thingamabob. I feel like Birdie was a ploy to get more views?!
  • N.I.M
    N.I.M Posts: 2,248 Forumite
    Yeah hands up I did something I shouldn't have so this is totally on me. Hands up, fair cop. That being said, if I'd had a sniff of a hint of a suggestion that I had gone beyond the realms of the reasonable I would instantly have stopped. Not that this changes anything, but a warning of some description would have been nice.
    This was 6 months out of date so I've changed it.
    :j:j:j:j
  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    Hell yeah, it's in my diary and everything! At the beginning of the year I made a resolution to do at least two social things a month (after last year was so bloody awful and spelled death to my social life) and I'm well and truly smashing that target I'm pleased to say! :) Hurrah for Special Internet Friends!

    Edit - cross posted NIM. I guess you said that to them?
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  • N.I.M
    N.I.M Posts: 2,248 Forumite
    Yep, they said tough ****, anyway some applications in, first interview down. now to finish tidying the kitchen and go to bed.
    This was 6 months out of date so I've changed it.
    :j:j:j:j
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    N.I.M wrote: »
    Yeah hands up I did something I shouldn't have so this is totally on me. Hands up, fair cop. That being said, if I'd had a sniff of a hint of a suggestion that I had gone beyond the realms of the reasonable I would instantly have stopped. Not that this changes anything, but a warning of some description would have been nice.

    Surely they should have given you a warning first though. Sounds very abrupt.
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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    First interview down?! Blimey!
    Weightloss: 14.5/65lb
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