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Xmas pressie ideas for 94-yr old granny?

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  • JJ.
    JJ. Posts: 122 Forumite
    What about a memory book? Get family members to add photos and write down their memories of when the photo was taken.
  • You can buy a new shawl for her.
  • tgroom57
    tgroom57 Posts: 1,432 Forumite
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    Grimbal wrote: »
    ... I'll get some smellies for her as she does use talc & soap, ..

    further to the soap idea my grandma was always particularly pleased with, and asked for, glycerine soaps. Glycerine keeps skin pliable.

    If you have difficulty finding glycerine soaps Body Shop do a nice selection about £2.50 each, I'm sure there's shop near you or order online if not.
  • qwiksave
    qwiksave Posts: 4,456 Forumite
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    Another suggestion... what about a book about the area she was brought up in? The type with lots of photos. Might be able to get it online if you don't live locally to her?
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  • My sister always gets the grannies a food hamper of things that she had gathered up herself with each persons likes in mind. Last year I gave them a give card for the supermarkets they use so they could get their own.
    This year I have one granny getting a photo canvas of herself with her four 'children' at a wedding earlier this year, the other is getting a christmas plant basket delivered from Interflora (we live 280 miles away) as she likes to put them in her porch and they last for months.
    OH wanted to pay a bill for his granny this year but we know she won't let us do that so we have got a big selection of foods and goodies that are all gluten free for her diet and I'm making up a nice hamper with them, with her very own individual christmas pud in it!
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  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,135 Forumite
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    edited 23 November 2012 at 11:25PM
    Sherry. Or whisky. Or any other tipple of her choice.


    I was in a similar position last year - buy her food and she gives it away, doesn't go out, doesn't wear smellies, going blind so couldn't read or watch tv....
    So as she was complaining she couldn't have bacon as no-one would let her cook in case she set the place on fire, and she mentioned in passing that she'd not had champagne in years, I surprised her with a birthday tea of bacon butties and champers. Which she still talks about.
    TBH in my grandmother's case she'd much rather have visits and the company, much more meaningful to her. And I take things I know will make her laugh to read out to her, and sit and do the things she likes such as crosswords that she can't do on her own any more.
    All depends how close you live and what time you can realistically offer.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
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  • pawlala
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    JJ. wrote: »
    What about a memory book? Get family members to add photos and write down their memories of when the photo was taken.
    Leave some space at the back otherwise it'll make her feel like she's on her way out.
  • kbrumann
    kbrumann Posts: 112 Forumite
    You can get her a high-gloss photo calendar. It's easy and fast ... and it's not too expensive.
  • emg
    emg Posts: 1,390 Forumite
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    Agree about giving time if at all possible. My grandma is no longer alive but I always gave a 'voucher' for a trip out together. It used to be the theatre or a nice restaurant but as she got older and less mobile and was in a home, she was happy with a trip to M&S cafe and a quick look round the undies section! It took me a couple of hours to get to her but I really value those times we had together and it often gave her something to look forward to once the christmas visits were over.
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