The granny thread

Savvy_Sue

I hate to raise this question, but are they paying you?

Because I THINK that if they are, you need to register as a childminder (and you need to start now!)

And you might think that your daughter could then claim those extra tax credits for childcare, but she can't unless you also care for unrelated children.

Whether they are paying you or not, you might want to include in your discussions who's paying for nappies (if disposables), treats and activities as babe gets older - you might enjoy a carers and toddler group!

Another excellent source of equipment is Freecycle - google, then look for your nearest group (make sure you're on the UK site!)

Spendless

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

I hate to raise this question, but are they paying you?

Because I THINK that if they are, you need to register as a childminder (and you need to start now!)

And you might think that your daughter could then claim those extra tax credits for childcare, but she can't unless you also care for unrelated children.

I think you are wrong with the first part but right with the second. My understanding is you can pay a relative to care for your child but you can't claim tax credits for this childcare UNLESS they are a registered childminder and then they also need to be looking after at least one other (unrelated) child. Not much info on a google search though, perhaps I'm not putting right key words in, but I did find this info

http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:yoSl-pZAYnEJ:www.ncma.org.uk/download/bs3.pdf+childminding+regulations&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=7&gl=uk

Savvy_Sue

Spendless wrote: »

I think you are wrong with the first part but right with the second. My understanding is you can pay a relative to care for your child but you can't claim tax credits for this childcare UNLESS they are a registered childminder and then they also need to be looking after at least one other (unrelated) child. Not much info on a google search though, perhaps I'm not putting right key words in, but I did find this info

http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:yoSl-pZAYnEJ:www.ncma.org.uk/download/bs3.pdf+childminding+regulations&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=7&gl=uk

Looks like you are right and the NCMA would definitely be able to answer the question to set us all straight! That search has brought up a page from their site, can't see anything obvious on the Ofsted page.

One thing a childminder HAS to do is First Aid training. If I'm lucky enough to have grandchildren, I would definitely consider refreshing those skills!

Spendless

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

Looks like you are right

Actually I'm astounded I was because the info came from a friend of mine who for years was an un-registered childminder :rolleyes: (long time ago now) and I initially looked the info up to say I agreed with you on both counts. . Strange there is very little info about this on the net though

summersnearlyhere

How lovely and I hope you enjoy your time as much as my MIL did looking after my daughter. She looked after her from 6 months for 2½ days a week and they have a special bond now that I absolutely love. My MIL can charm her into things I have no chance of several years on. I love the fact that there is absolute unconditional love and my daughter knows it. Going back to work and leaving your child at 6 months is hard and the guilt really gets to you but it helps to know they are safe with someone who loves them just as much as you do.

My only bit of advice would be not to get too much as they grow out of everything so quickly it will hardly be used.

Enjoy and I can't wait to be a Grandma - my daughter's only 10!!!!

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Savvy_Sue I`m doing it for love so money does not come into it

my daughter might be 30 but you don`t stop being a caring mum when they grow up

liney

Just a thought - my HV said you sterilise the bottles in the dishwasher as long as they are filled with the boiled water straight way.

I used to keep the sterile water filled bottle short of what i was making up, top up with an oz or 2 of fresh boiled water to heat, and add the scoops there and then when i needed to feed son.

This saved on them a) Needing a steriliser, Needing a bottle warmer and c) Bottles standing in the fridge pre prepared which isnt recommended. My method was 'approved' my the HV.

Also having some Calpol, Teething Powder, Calomine lotion, and Sunscreen for littly would be a good idea.

Glad

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Savvy_Sue

kittie wrote: »

Savvy_Sue I`m doing it for love so money does not come into it

my daughter might be 30 but you don`t stop being a caring mum when they grow up

No, I know that, I just think it's worth being clear about things, especially as either of you might face a change in circumstances as time goes by.

sanran

my step grandson has lived with me since he was 4 he is now nearly ten, i just love having him here. its hard work but i would not have it any other way