Ebay Feedback

Why is it that whether I am the seller or the buyer, it always seem that I have to be the first to give feedback?:mad::mad:

Also, why do so many people not bother to leave it even when you have given them good feedback?
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  • steveo3002
    steveo3002 Posts: 2,731 Forumite
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    yes its annoying..just nice to see some feedback that their item has arrived

    i always leave feedback as they pay or my item arrives
  • soolin
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    You don't need to leave any at all if you choose not to.
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  • porto_bello
    porto_bello Posts: 1,828 Forumite
    Yes, it's very annoying, but my advice is always leave feedback for buyers quickly, since it's easiest to do it at the time that an item is packaged and addressed.

    And especially because there are known to be a small proportion of buyers, who leave bad feedback and DSRs if a selller doesn't jump to leaves a positive for them! ... Though perhaps it's just an excuse!
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  • Yes, it's very annoying, but my advice is always leave feedback for buyers quickly, since it's easiest to do it at the time that an item is packaged and addressed.

    And especially because there are known to be a small proportion of buyers, who leave bad feedback and DSRs if a selller doesn't jump to leaves a positive for them! ... Though perhaps it's just an excuse!

    I agree. I have left bad feedback to a seller when they don't bother leaving me positive feedback when I paid within 10 seconds of auction close. I am also a seller on eBay and have been for 15 years, I always leave feedback immediately I am paid - yet many don't even bother to leave feedback even though they are obviously happy with their item.

    Annoys me a lot!
  • TKPeters
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    edited 28 October 2012 at 1:16PM
    Feedback is optional & not mandatory on either side.
    I have left bad feedback to a seller when they don't bother leaving me positive feedback


    Leaving bad feedback as the seller hasn't left you any is a little petty, as the seller may have auto feedback set to leave positive upon positive being left for them
  • It should be.
  • TKPeters
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    It should be.

    Its not & never will be.
    I hope you left the actual reasoning for your Neg, as customer service would remove it under social commentary & give you a warning.
  • soolin
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    I agree. I have left bad feedback to a seller when they don't bother leaving me positive feedback when I paid within 10 seconds of auction close. I am also a seller on eBay and have been for 15 years, I always leave feedback immediately I am paid - yet many don't even bother to leave feedback even though they are obviously happy with their item.

    Annoys me a lot!


    Most sellers who happen to browse feedback left for others would block you for that. It shows a complete lack of understanding about how ebay works./
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  • melbury
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    edited 28 October 2012 at 3:13PM
    Thanks for your replies, it would just be nice to know that the item has been received by the buyer as much as anything.
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  • soolin
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    melbury wrote: »
    Thanks for your replies, it would be just be nice to know that the item has been received buy the buyer as much as anything.

    For peace of mind it is always best to assume everything you send has arrived safely- after all if it hasn't then buyers are not slow in letting the seller know!
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