anyone fancy a chat?

sured

he has just sent me a text saying been busy with work will ring you friday,

why oh why does it just take one little thing to knock me back again?

Becks_in_Debt

Stay strong and concentrate, if need be turn off your mobile (Battery Dead) and pull out the land line (You were out with your friends, so didnt hear the phone ring) so he cant speak to you 2moz if you feel like you need more time on your own to gather your thoughts, dont drop everything just for him else he will carry on treating you badly, If he wants to talk to you and sort things out he needs to be a man, he created this situation (in a cowardly way), now he needs to sort it out face to face and stop hiding behind his mobile.
Sorry if that sounds harsh

sured

hi its me again,
i've had a really **** day,
i had to tell my parents today, oh god it was awful, my dad is so disappointed, he really liked him,
i also told a couple of friends in the village,
so in all i have had to tell the story three times today, it hurts like hell when you are trying to block it out,
the general feeling seems to be he has someone else,
there really is no other explanation,
do you's think i should try and think of it like that and then if he has it wont hurt so much?

Becks_in_Debt

Sorry you had such a bad day yesterday, atleast you wont have to tell them again, and it makes it more final.
If you think the worst you can not get even more hurt, plus thinking that he has somebody else, should make you hate him even more and make it easier to get on with your own life.
Are you still living at his house? what have you managed to sort out so far, living in the future, bills, getting your money back that you put into the house etc?
- Take Care, keep us posted

dizzydolly

Toto wrote: »

My advice in a breakup is to ignore him totally, no reply to his silly texts, don't answer the phone, let him wonder what you are doing.

As it's his house, if you need to leave at some point, you could always give him a gift to make sure he has plenty of healthy stuff to eat. Get a ton of cress seeds, sprinkle all over the carpets, water well and close the door. In a few days he should have a lovely green carpet egg mayo anyone?

PMSL.....What a brilliant idea.

Storm

Hi Sue,

Telling people is always difficult because you end up going over everything again, but remember that the people you're telling are your friends, so you could just tell them the basics & that you aren't up for discussing it at the moment - they should respect your wishes, and hopefully be there without being nosey!

Storm x