anyone fancy a chat?

Becks_in_Debt

Ok, give us a nudge when you are ready to talk again, go and have a nice long hot bath with your favourite music on in the background and relax, and then have a HUGE BAR OF CHOCOLATE

:EasterBun

lynsayjane

sured my first instinct when I read about your text was dump all his stuff in boxes and leave it on the front doorstep for him, forgot it was his house thought doh!

in which case smash everything in sight (so long as it belongs to him). I'd also suggest putting irreplaceable by beyonce on repeat, cause he's proving he is most definatly not irreplaceable!

am so sorry it's happened like this toots, but it seems like the best thing for you, you can have a new start on life and be able to make yourself happy which seems to be something that was sadly lacking with him in your life! I've been dumped in everyway imaginable, the time I was dumped by text I decided to go get my tongue pierced to cheer myself up...I know, I'm weird, but it worked

SemperFi

HUGS Sured. Just read the thread!

SortingIt_2

Hi Sured,

I am pretty new to this website and I have just been reading back over your thread. It sounds like you have and are really going through it right now. Not that I know it will make any difference to you right now because you are hurting but I went through a similar thing about a while ago, I was engaged to be married to who I thought was the love of my life only to find out that he had been cheating on me only 2 months into our engagement!! Needless to say after much heartache the relationship ended, he too had no respect for me, I just didn't realise until it was over. Anyway, to cut a long story short, only 3 mths after I met my now current boyfriend and am totally happy and loved up still together 2 years down the line! I think these things happen for a reason and you have to make sure from now on that you are the most important person, think of number one first! You might not feel it now but if he can do this to you, in such a horrible (and childish) way then you deserve far much more and you will have it too!

Take care and keep smiling, it all works out in the end :-)

xxx

sammy115

Becks_in_Debt wrote: »

:T :T :T You found the Keys :T :T :T

I bet you are well chuffed, oh, maybe not you have sent your imobiliser off havent you? ? ? how much is that costing.

No Sured you are not a numpty, all been there, done that, are you in the land of nod at the min getting up a stupid hours?

What freelance work are you doing at that time in the morning?

I found the keys about five minutes after I had refitted the lock and the immobiliser on my car. At a cost of £95! Not good, but now I have THREE keys. Was just glad to have my car back.

Please don't laugh.. I write financial models for start up businessess and businesses going for finance. Cash flow etc..... I can sort everybody else's finances out except my own. Can only really concentrate at that time in the morning, when there is no one around.

sammy115

SURED - i am sending a hug over to you. Keep your chin up. I am on here most of the time if you need a chinwag or shoulder to cry on.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!{hugs}}}}}}}}}}

Becks_in_Debt

I work in accounts, sales and purchase ledger. oh if only they knew.

My OH went to get the car MOT'd today and it failed, we bought it in nov last year (£500), only to last us the year intill we could afford a better one, well it has failed and is going to cost too much to have it sorted, so now we need to get a new car, just as things were looking up for us money wise,

sured

hi everyone, thankyou all so much for your support,

i wish i could tell you i feel better,
but i dont, i feel like ****,

his friend has just been to see me, and has a very low opinion of him right now,
i know i will get better in time,
its just at the minute i feel really awful,
i need to eat but cant,
i need to sleep but cant,
i need to stop crying but it just keeps coming,

i feel as i've chucked out with the rubbish,
and he carries on without a care in the world,
i dont want him back,
why does it have to feel like this,
sorry i am rambling.

sammy115

Hi Becks - cars 'a necessary evil'. Two weeks ago we paid for OH car to have brakes done. Had put it off for months, we scraped together the four hundred and odd pounds we needed to have them done, then the day after some idiot went up the back of him and wrote the car off.

Fair enough we were insured but we just feel a bit stressed with the up and down of it all. (whereas previously we would have just slapped the cost on a credit card and not worried about it!) Now we have to find the £450 excess, which we will get back in 'due course'.

ZTD

sured wrote: »

hi everyone, thankyou all so much for your support,

i wish i could tell you i feel better,
but i dont, i feel like ****,

Yes, you will. It's all part of the process. Mother Nature doesn't like people splitting up, so she makes it shiite...

sured wrote: »

his friend has just been to see me, and has a very low opinion of him right now,
i know i will get better in time,
its just at the minute i feel really awful,
i need to eat but cant,
i need to sleep but cant,
i need to stop crying but it just keeps coming,

You will stop crying when it is time to stop crying. The tears will wash the misery away. If you eat - eat good wholesome stuff - don't eat rubbish like I did.

sured wrote: »

i feel as i've chucked out with the rubbish,
and he carries on without a care in the world,

You day will come - mine did.

sured wrote: »

i dont want him back,
why does it have to feel like this,
sorry i am rambling.

It will get better. Promise.