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Update - collection only item that she wanted posted

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  • becky004
    becky004 Posts: 5,166 Forumite
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    bluep wrote: »
    becky004 - some people just like trolling on forums and stirring people up. It's attention seeking dribble really. :)

    Is there no way of removing said trolls from forums?
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  • becky004 wrote: »
    Have read a number of your posts on various threads, why are you so rude and condascending to people?
    Are clearly a rather shallow and inadequate person to belittle others in almost every post you write.

    :confused: Please point out to me which part is 'rude' and 'condescending' for that matter?? 'Truth' - yes, 'rude' - ummmm? No.

    If you ever read any of the 'feedback' or 'I've received my first negative!" threads, you will see that the majority of the posters are in complete agreement with me in that neither issue is any big deal.

    As for my tone - don't like? don't read! :confused: I don't like the tone of some of your past posts but I don't make a song and dance about like you're doing. Perhaps you need reminding that we're all entitled to our own opinions and there are things that other members say that you won't necessarily agree with? :confused:

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  • Avoriaz
    Avoriaz Posts: 39,110 Forumite
    ...As for my tone - don't like? don't read! :confused: ..
    How does she do that?:confused:

    She has to read your post before she realises it is your usual drivel. :p
  • Hintza
    Hintza Posts: 19,420 Forumite
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    sockospice wrote: »
    I can sometimes prefer to see a seller with a couple of negs, because their reactions to them tells you a lot more about their customer service than a string of positives. You hope that nothing will go wrong in the transaction, but you hope that if it does, the seller can deal with it sensibly.

    Got to agree with this comment, a good seller is one who handles the inevitable !!!! ups well.

    I have seen some really nasty unfounded comments and negs for some sellers and it is their replies that make me think they are folk i can do business with.
  • dragonsoup
    dragonsoup Posts: 511 Forumite
    ssparry wrote: »
    Last week I posted to say that a women had won a lamp @ 99p, it was collection only but she wanted it posted - only asked me after she had won it.

    She has just left me negative feedback.

    I am so upset I am in tears. I know it is is only a silly little thing but I have worked so hard on ebay, I am a single mum and the money I make gets clothes for Izzy and food on our table. she has just ruined the whole thing for me now.

    It is not even my fault that she bid on a collection only item and couldn't actually collect it.

    I am really !!!!!! off now.

    Well I always make a point of reading a sellers negative/neutral feedbacks. I don't bother with the positives.

    If I saw a negative for this reason I would totally disregard it as I hope would most people.
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