Question about dna tests and Csa, ( x partner problem)

Darlyd

He is defo 100% the Father. I don't get why he is going to these lengths, he is only losing £10 a fortnight out of his JSA, and he works too. He has plenty of money. I do hope it's him that takes the test, and I do hope this case is not the 1% negative.. He is an utter twit!!!!!

DUTR

darlyd wrote: »

He is defo 100% the Father. I don't get why he is going to these lengths, he is only losing £10 a fortnight out of his JSA, and he works too. He has plenty of money. I do hope it's him that takes the test, and I do hope this case is not the 1% negative.. He is an utter twit!!!!!

I really do wish you would not get so eat up about this, also note you and your child also have to participate in the testing.
You are 100% sure that he is the father, so why are you worrying about it? People opt for the test because it is their right to do so and there is no evidence for the CSA to presume paternity.

Darlyd

Because he seems the type of guy that falls in !!!!, and comes out smelling of roses..

elisebutt65

Have you reported him to the Jobcentre for working whilst signing on?

DUTR

darlyd wrote: »

Because he seems the type of guy that falls in !!!!, and comes out smelling of roses..

Only in your eyes , there is no evading on this issue, just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons, eg to have some contribution towards raising the children you made together, sadly relationships break down for a whole host of reasons, and it doesn't matter if he did this or she did that, the end result is the same

PreludeForTimeFeelers

clearingout wrote: »

I might be wrong, but I think you'll find Prelude is a CSA staff member (but don't tell anyone!).

I don't mind being 'outed' here, there's less loonies than on the likes of the CSAHell site...

kevin137

PreludeForTimeFeelers wrote: »

I don't mind being 'outed' here, there's less loonies than on the likes of the CSAHell site...

I think it is beneficial to have some sensible advice from someone actually in the know, beats having duff advice form a wannabe do-gooder in my mind, as long as there are no conflict of interests involved then you should be happy to help and have people happy to get some advice, it is actually really helpful....!

Doesn't change the fact that most of the people on the end of the phone at the CSA are nobs though... haha

clearingout

PreludeForTimeFeelers wrote: »

I don't mind being 'outed' here, there's less loonies than on the likes of the CSAHell site...

you're saying I'm not a loon, then?! Darn it! The cover's working too well!

daryl - you have no choice but to go ahead with the test and await the outcome. I know what you mean about smelling of roses - my ex is the same. However, when I look objectively at where he is with life, it's far easier to realise that to be smelling so sweetly, he really must be standing in s**t!!!!

PreludeForTimeFeelers

I don't claim to know everything, but if it's something I know about then I will try to help out - I'm also posting as a 'concerned citizen' rather than as an employee of the CSA, and will never say my word is gospel. No conflict of interest as I'm not a caseworker these days.

Believe me, you get nobs on BOTH sides of the phone...

PreludeForTimeFeelers

clearingout wrote: »

you're saying I'm not a loon, then?! Darn it! The cover's working too well!

Did you ever see the CSA Hell facebook group? Now THAT was a collection of loons, everything else pales in comparison!