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Car-obsessed in-laws — would you keep schtum?

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  • cajef
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    All I know is when my grandad hit 65 he was tested, as I'm only 34 I'm a little way off to have 1st hand knowledge of this.

    As the ops father in law is 80, it's not relevant to the question is it really..

    I can assure you I have first hand knowledge and there is no requirement for anyone to have a test at 65, if your grandad had some sort of test there must have been a reason other than his age.

    If it is not relevant why did you bring it up?
  • if he asks to check it over, then say no you bought it your decision your responsability.
  • patman99
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    Niether my dad or my FiL have ever had a medical check before they renewed their licenses. My dad is 80 and is a confident driver. My FiL on the other hand has realised that he is a danger to everyone else on the road (in fact, he has been for years and I only travelled with him twice and frieghtened the life out of me) so has now given-up driving (thank God).
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  • JQ.
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    I don't see what the problem is, I know lots of people who change their more often than that. Better that his hobby is buying cars than drink and drugs.
  • missile
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    You could try another tactic. Suggest he hires the car he wants perhaps as a trial first. It could work out cheaper than changing frequently.
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  • Direct Gov confirms that at the age of 70 it's simply a matter of applying every 3 years for a renewal, with no driving test required:

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/Motoring/DriverLicensing/NeedANewOrUpdatedLicence/DG_4022086

    Questions are asked about medical conditions but the driver is making a self-declaration so there are no checks with their doctor. In a number of other EU countries including Denmark and Ireland, at the age of 70 drivers are required to produce a doctor's certificate for renewal of their licence.

    I think the OP may have questioned the fitness of his parents in law to still be driving? I wonder how most GPs would respond to an anonymous (or not) report that one of their patients isn't fit to drive a car?
  • poet123
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    My parents loved to change their cars....at least once a year, I wish they were here to do that now. Seriously OP why does it annoy you so much?
  • Errata
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    I think the OP may have questioned the fitness of his parents in law to still be driving? I wonder how most GPs would respond to an anonymous (or not) report that one of their patients isn't fit to drive a car?
    Doctors aren't police officers. Nor are they interested in anonymous reporting, although they're quite used to it.
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  • Advice please.

    Not your money, none of your business.
  • Errata wrote: »
    Doctors aren't police officers. Nor are they interested in anonymous reporting, although they're quite used to it.

    Really? Tell us more. And does it relate to driving?
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