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Would you give money to a child at the door?

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  • Why can't you just for a minute step back and think that these kids were just being entrepreneurial?, nobody knows for sure but I think it's fantastic that 2 kids are out there trying to earn some pocket money rather than it just being handed on a plate to them while they sit in in front of an Xbox all day every day. Isn't this how some of our greatest business leaders started out, I'm thinking Richard Branson, Bill Gates etc

    Since when was begging regarded as entrepreneurial? I'm not sure either Richard Branson or Bill Gates started out knocking on doors asking for money :eek:
    I let my mind wander and it never came back!
  • I would pay them to wash a car. I think it's good that they are trying to earn money if they want it. We have local sea cadets, and in over a decade, they just appear every year asking for money - never to do a job, which I don't mind once in a while, but it wears thin after several years. I do think that they should put some effort into getting the money.

    I'd rather these children be able to earn the odd bit of money rather than discover that it's not worth the while trying to earn, and simply resort to illegal means.

    Having said that, I would be picky about the people being employed - a couple were canvassing my street about window cleaning. I would have said yes, but the fact that one of them gobbed on the street just before coming up my path put me off them - I don't want to encourage someone like that to frequent my street!
  • cheepskate_2
    cheepskate_2 Posts: 1,669 Forumite
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    edited 25 January 2013 at 9:20AM
    Reminds me of the time my child started earning money, selling sweets to pals
  • I do think it's a good thing to encourage children to earn pocket money, but that was done at home when I was young (I.e was Dad's car for a fiver, strip wall paper) etc. I don't think there is anything wrong with offering to walk a neighbours dog or mow their lawn but I don't think it's right to knock on strangers doors. Especially aged six or seven!
  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    No, I wouldn't.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    No, I wouldn't have given any money and I would probably also have had a word with our local police officer. I would be worried about the child's safety.
  • cheepskate wrote: »
    Lol, reminds me of when my DS1 would car wash, which I was fine with, but really had to put my foot down when he started making little magazines up and selling them round our area.
    Ds1 is now an adult and still has that drive to make a little bit extra

    Lol. He sounds adorable! :rotfl:
  • Chakani
    Chakani Posts: 826 Forumite
    No. If it was my next door neighbour's little boy, who I know, and whose parents I know, that would be different, and I would want to encourage him :) But no way would I be letting an unknown 7 year old wash my car, and certainly not handing out money at the door.
  • harrys_nan
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    My son and his friend when young had a regular little round washing cars and really enjoyed it, my son now has a brilliant job and is also a director, his friend has his own roofing business , so in all honesty I dont think it hurt either of them.
    They both have very good work ethics :)
    Treat other's how you like to be treated.

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    New baby grandson, Louie born 28/06/2012,
    Proud nanny to two beautiful boys :j
    And now I have the joy of having my foster granddaughter becoming my real granddaughter. Can't ask for anything better

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  • Chakani wrote: »
    But no way would I be letting an unknown 7 year old wash my car, and certainly not handing out money at the door.

    And you certainly don't let them have the keys so he can do the inside of the windows... :rotfl:
    A kind word lasts a minute, a skelped erse is sair for a day.
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