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Will you be calling MIL2B and FIL2B 'mum and dad'?

As above, just been suggested to me by mil2b, I think its lovely, what will you be doing?
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  • I call them by their first names.
    '' Ok Marge, if anyone asks, you require 24-hour nursing care; Lisa's a clergyman; Maggie is seven people and Bart was wounded in Vietnam ''
  • stir_crazy
    stir_crazy Posts: 1,441 Forumite
    I think its nice, but my MIL"B and FIL2B haven't asked me to do that so I'll just be calling them by their first names. I send cards to them as mum and dad though.
  • Over my dead body would I call them mum and dad I already have perfectly good parents I don't need any extra especially them two they don't deserve that name from their own kids let alone me.

    I just call them by their first names

    Steph xx
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    In a word - no. They will always just be first names, they'll become granny and grandpa eventually anyway!! (or similar...)
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • ampafc
    ampafc Posts: 614 Forumite
    First names for me also
    Getting married to a wonderful lady on August 10, 2012.

    Need to save up, lose weight, reduce my money worries and get back to being the real me! :j
  • Faith177
    Faith177 Posts: 2,927 Forumite
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    edited 6 September 2012 at 10:58AM
    ATM my MIL2B is lucky i'm even bloody talking to her!:mad:

    She will always be called by her first name (said through gritted teeth)

    She will never be a mum to me as I don't think she know the meaning of the word!!!!

    Sorry mini rant there.

    Lets put it this way it is about as much as I can do to be civil to that woman :rotfl:
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  • CompBunny
    CompBunny Posts: 1,059 Forumite
    First name here for his mother. Nothing wrong with calling them mum and dad (thats what my parents did when they got married) but it just doesn't seem right for me personally. I also wouldn't want my future husband to start calling my mum Mum!
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  • CompBunny
    CompBunny Posts: 1,059 Forumite
    Faith177 wrote: »
    ATM my MIL2B is lucky i'm even bloody talking to her!:mad:

    She will always be called by her first name (said through gritted teeth)

    She will never be a mum to me as I don't think she know the meaning of the word!!!!

    Sorry mini rant there.

    Lets put it this way it is about as much as I can to be civil to that woman :rotfl:

    Aww bless you, sounds like you need a *hug*!
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    Oct:£123.98Nov:£120Dec:£138Feb:£94.72

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    Engaged to my best friend 08/2012:heart2:

  • I call them by their first names.

    Likewise (married 8 years). My sister in law (with my BIL a lot longer) still calls them Mr and Mrs D!!!
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
    :A Tim Minchin :A
  • My FIL texts me occassionally. Before the wedding he always signed off with "T...". After the wedding he started signing off with "dad". I asked DH to ask him not to do that any more as I don't like it. It's not for me, personally.
    Don't worry about typing out my username - Call me COMP
    (Unless you know my real name - in which case, feel free to use that just to confuse people!)
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