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In pursuit of Health, Wealth and Happiness

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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    I'll definitely join you in the shred Tete. I've done 6 week 6 pack and I find it very similar to shred, just a different work out, I wouldn't say it was particularly more core focused except there isn't the weights bit, there is still a lot of cardio. The Yoga is easy in terms of how much it pushed my muscles, but hard in that I kept loosing my balance or slipping all over the floor.

    My goal weight is 8st 3lbs, but I'm a middling height at 5"6.5 (the half is important!) Currently 9st 1lb and I really want to break that 8stone line.
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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    Oh Cinny :( No work colleagues (or friends, family or ANYONE!) should make you feel like the 'fat one' whether you are fat or not (and you're definitely not!) so I think they're out of order there to start with, but I guess it's hard to go from joking about it to 'actually that's not OK' :( I think Lara's idea is a brilliant one - maybe aim for your five a day and take fruit to work, save sugary treats for after tea and then they can't pick on you for eating the sweet stuff? I don't know... :undecided

    Meeting was OK in the end, just the usual catch up - I'm turning super paranoid haha!
    Weightloss: 14.5/65lb
  • Tete_en_l'Air
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    Dinah93 wrote: »
    The Yoga is easy in terms of how much it pushed my muscles, but hard in that I kept loosing my balance or slipping all over the floor.

    Ah see that's no good for me, I have terrible balance and it seems pointless if you can't do the moves properly. Might get the 6 pack and buns of steel vids and rotate the three of them! :eek: Are you still running Dinah?
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  • shrimpy_80
    shrimpy_80 Posts: 1,631 Forumite
    Cinny, first of all you are completely gorgeous! I find if I know I'm eating rubbish I feel really down on myself. I am a dreadful binge eater (seriously I eat some crazy stuff) and it becomes a bit of a cycle. Plus you do get heaps of exercise with Ryder, and being out in the fresh air is way better than pounding a treadmill IMO. I bet they eat the biscuits you bring in!
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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    Are you still running Dinah?
    A little but I'm a wuss and hate going out in the cold. Inside every day I want to run, but it's the going outside bit that's working against me.
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  • Kepp
    Kepp Posts: 4,390 Forumite
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    I think that's the problem - aside from gaining weight - eating rubbish makes you feel rubbish. Yet knowing all that, it still can be hard. At the end of a bad day, no-one has ever said 'I know what, I'll treat myself an apple!'

    Cinny - I would second what others have said. You know better what is a good idea for you so ignore if this is totally terrible advice, but rather than making weightloss your goal your goal could be to be healthier/get fitter?
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  • Kepp
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    Ah see that's no good for me, I have terrible balance and it seems pointless if you can't do the moves properly. Might get the 6 pack and buns of steel vids and rotate the three of them! :eek: Are you still running Dinah?

    Apparently when your muscles are stronger you have better balance as strong muscles stabilise you better. Have yet to discover if this is true! :D
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  • Cinny91
    Cinny91 Posts: 6,022 Forumite
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    My balance is shot and I managed okay with it, the key is the yoga mat I think!!

    I think with work it's that everyone's into fitness. One of my bosses was actually saying to someone on Monday "I don't see the point in having a coffee and cake from Costa, when you could have mackerel, some rice and lots of vegetables for less calories" and I was just like :eek: I think it's just Fat Amy syndrome, I know they think I'm unhealthy and a little tubs so I mareswell say it before they say it behind my back. And obviously that kind of opens the floor to them openly joking about it.. I have snapped back a couple times but like you said, it's hard to tell people a joke's gone too far - especially when you join in as a form of self defense. It just niggles at you a little, I think. They tell me I don't need to lose weight and throw compliments at me too, but as ever you focus on the negative things!

    Thanks Shrimpy! :o The funny thing with biscuits is, I have one or two from the pack over the week and the "healthy" people have 5 in a row! Like when I bought the cake in yesterday, I had blueberry and they were diving in and threatening to fight each other over the chocolate toffee ones *rolly eyes*

    I don't know. I'm actually pretty happy with how I look at the moment, there's a little bit of podge but I figure that will go when I start getting our diet back to being balanced. I've stopped buying fizzy drinks, made sure I've got dinner and breakfast things in so I don't go grazing too :) You're right though, I need to focus on "healthy" aims over weight zoned ones. I'll be in for the yoga though, to replace my pilates in a few weeks.

    Sorry to hog your thread, Tete!
  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    Cinny91 wrote: »
    The funny thing with biscuits is, I have one or two from the pack over the week and the "healthy" people have 5 in a row! Like when I bought the cake in yesterday, I had blueberry and they were diving in and threatening to fight each other over the chocolate toffee ones *rolly eyes*

    Haha, well there you go, maybe you need to vocalise a few home truths ... in jest obviously ;) *rolly eyes*

    Mmmm, mackerel! I love it!
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  • shrimpy_80
    shrimpy_80 Posts: 1,631 Forumite
    You are all making me think I should buy Jillian's yoga now... I do get that there are different intensities of yoga, but the only class I've been to I fell asleep in and I just can't reconcile the image of that with Jillian screaming and grimacing at me!
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