how to get over someone you cant be with

raven83

Pack it in, you will get your post deleted for going off topic

meandmylife

Rochdale_Guy wrote: »

Which two? Think very carefully how you answer this.

The winner gets to sail off into the sunset with Raven83

:A

was talking about you and lotus-eater.
i suppose if raven didnt want either of yous . yous could both go into that boat together :rotfl:

raven83

Lotus-eater wrote: »

That was what was being planned Sunset or not

Lucky me hey :rotfl:

Rochdale_Guy

raven83 wrote: »

Pack it in, you will get your post deleted for going off topic

Me or lotus-eater?

I hate the sight of blood so Raven83 can choose

My stallion awaits!

meandmylife

raven83 wrote: »

Pack it in, you will get your post deleted for going off topic

dont think it would matter now .

ive had some very good advise ,

Rochdale_Guy

Look, we all know this person you can't stop thinking about is actually ME.

Time to fess up and tell the truth.

Come on, I have a Premier Inn room booked for us both

meandmylife

hope you booked that room in the sale, wouldn't want you to lose to much money

Rochdale_Guy

OUCH!

DVardysShadow

meandmylife wrote: »

i dont know if it would be easier to talk to her and tell her why we should have contact or if i should just cut her off and ignore her if contact is made.
i know if she hears nothing from me for a few weeks , she will get touch asking if everything is alright .

Obviously she has not got over it. You have, but she seems well capable of dragging you into something which is going to make you responsible for a whole load of grief and most likely will not have a happy end for any of you.

So you need to tell her the realities of where you see this could go and that the choices you both made have now set the possibilities offered by what ifs outside of reality. And for that reason, she should sort herself out and leave you alone.

raven83

DVardysShadow wrote: »

Obviously she has not got over it. You have, but she seems well capable of dragging you into something which is going to make you responsible for a whole load of grief and most likely will not have a happy end for any of you.

So you need to tell her the realities of where you see this could go and that the choices you both made have now set the possibilities offered by what ifs outside of reality. And for that reason, she should sort herself out and leave you alone.

Couldn't agree more, and that is what happened in my situation, I got dragged into it, then had to deal with all the misery. Even now she struggles to take no for an answer, but I will never go back there.