Trying for a Baby Part 8

BeNiceToMySelf

Congratulations Nic!

skaps

Great news. Many congrats

TeamLowe

Congratulations nic x

BeNiceToMySelf

just got home and asked OH to BD but he said no. He had work in an hour but he's being an a*se I think. It makes me fed up with the whole thing cos I feel like I have to do the chivvying along and the worrying. I don't want to track ovulation cos I can't be bothered POAS or taking my temp everyday. It feels like I have to do waaay more than him even at this early stage. According to the 'clockwork' cycle of ovulation being a perfect 14 days after the first day of my period, I'm on a two week wait and it wouldn't have mattered anyway but I'm still peed off!

firefly369

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Congratulations!!!

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^^^^^^^What she said^^^^^^whooooo:beer::beer::beer::beer:! Another BFP. Can't wait till its my turn:T:T:T:T:T:T:T

emylou

Congratulations Nic!!!!! :j:j:j

codemonkey

BeNiceToMySelf wrote: »

just got home and asked OH to BD but he said no. He had work in an hour but he's being an a*se I think. It makes me fed up with the whole thing cos I feel like I have to do the chivvying along and the worrying. I don't want to track ovulation cos I can't be bothered POAS or taking my temp everyday. It feels like I have to do waaay more than him even at this early stage. According to the 'clockwork' cycle of ovulation being a perfect 14 days after the first day of my period, I'm on a two week wait and it wouldn't have mattered anyway but I'm still peed off!

know exactly how that feels bntm. I've not even got close to ov but I know it's not happening this month. DH is still complaining that he's poorly and my sinus infection and general fed-upness with the whole always having to make sure it happens, taking so many supplements I rattle, checking cm and cp, having the prop your bum up dilemma, suffering sore boobs, an endless 2ww in which I inevitably kid myself that I'm getting a BFP only to end up in floods of tears when AF shows up again while DH prioritises computer games and football and refuses to take his one chewable vitamin pill unless I put it in his mouth, means that I'm in no mood to put it out there.

Having a bit of a stompy feet tantrum today of "why is it never me!" proportions. I'm happy that people are getting their BFPs but so fed up of not having one myself.

That being said, congratulations nic.

claire16c

BeNiceToMySelf wrote: »

just got home and asked OH to BD but he said no. He had work in an hour but he's being an a*se I think. It makes me fed up with the whole thing cos I feel like I have to do the chivvying along and the worrying. I don't want to track ovulation cos I can't be bothered POAS or taking my temp everyday. It feels like I have to do waaay more than him even at this early stage. According to the 'clockwork' cycle of ovulation being a perfect 14 days after the first day of my period, I'm on a two week wait and it wouldn't have mattered anyway but I'm still peed off!

If your sure you've already ovulated then maybe save the times you need to persuade him for the fertile times! Otherwise you're stressing over nothing.

Having said that, if you have no idea when you're ovulating you need to bd a lot more so you don't miss it! So perhaps if you knew it might help? Although if you have a regular cycle you could work it out without doing any testing.

Congratulations nic!

lemonmelon_2

Treating myself to two big fat chocolate biscuits tonight as I managed a gynae consultant appointment (complete with prodding, poking and pelvic exam), feel like I deserve it :-)
Not much to report here baby-making wise, just waiting for ov (coming soon to an ovary near you! )
Nic did you do anything different this month?

claire16c

If I'm not pregnant this month I was thinking next month I will try to do the things I did do when I got pregnant. All I can think of though is bding two days before ov, one day before ov and on the day (seriously can't believe that was the only time we did that- having said that, I can't normally tell when I'm two days away it was pretty much luck). And I ate a load of pineapple - but I think that may have been around 10-13dpo so likely after implantation anyway.

So basically all I can think of is bd loads which isn't very helpful! Especially with my long cycles it can be tiring.

Although - there was one thing DH did for a laugh after bding one of those times- instead of me just lying down as usual, he like picked me up so I was doing a headstand on him for a couple of seconds after lol!! Maybe well try that again - bd acrobatics!