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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    I'm another one with a reluctant OH recently, it's getting pretty annoying now. Still, think it will be CD1 tomorrow so he can have a week off without me sulking about it lol.
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    I usually have a reluctant hubby as well, he makes it sound so much of a chore. We don't have big s.e.x. drives, so we do just tend to dtd around ov, and even then it's only every couple of days, hence why I have a cbfm so at least we get a bit of warning of when ov is, so I can time it right. But for some reason this month he's wanted to dtd everyday around my ov, and wants to dtd again tonight. Three nights in a row.... wow!
    No sign of a peak yet on the cbfm, so on we go. It still just feels so right this month. Wierd.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    edited 4 December 2012 at 6:45PM
    Sorry the list is late ladies, been a longggg day!

    Testing List

    12/12/12 Rumfeeble. What a fabulous date!

    December graduates

    -Winner of November BFP predictions: No-one even close! Need a few more this month

    December BFP predictions

    becca0417 - 4
    vic3 - 5
    Squ1rrel - 6
    NoAngel - 6
    Elsie - 7
    Birdie85 - 7
    kellykins - 7
    Metranil Vavin - 8
    lao_cat - 9
    Purcy81 - 10
    Marie1 - 10
    Vesper - 10
    Avis - 11
    lemonmelon - 11
    Courgette - 12 (including self)
    kte - 12
    rumfeeble - 12
    Amyloofoo - a CRAZYILY optimistic 13. Lets all hope!

    Thread Graduates:

    Hopefor3 BFP 08/11/12
    Anderson BFP 13/11/12
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Two week Wait

    CD45 Trina - 40DPO :cool:
    CD48 littleme - 34DPO :cool:
    CD46 g1rlyg1rl - 29DPO :cool:
    CD40 Loulou123 - 25DPO :cool:
    CD30 Kellykins - ?DPO :cool:
    CD78 benhope - 12DPO :cool:
    CD24 Courgette – 11DPO :cool:
    CD45 TeamLowe – 11DPO :cool:
    CD24 Hopelass - 10DPO :cool:
    CD36 firefly369 - 9DPO :cool:
    CD31 vic3 - 6DPO :cool:
    CD24 Rumfeeble - 6DPO :cool: gettin' jiggy with da maca root.
    CD18 Time2deal* - 5DPO :cool:
    CD18 COMP* - 4DPO :cool:
    CD20 lilymay* - 3DPO :cool:
    CD17 Metranil Vavin* - 1DPO :cool:
    CD20 Codemonkey - 1DPO :cool:
    CD44 maire - 0DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    CD121 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov :o
    CD118 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD98 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD77 Gemmzie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD65 JoJoB - Awaiting ov :o
    CD60 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD49 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD49 coops228 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD41 abailey - Awaiting ov :o
    CD38 Tealover – Awaiting ov :o
    CD37 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD34 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Toothfairy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Beautybutterfly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Lao_cat - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Elsie37 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 onlywayisup - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 Nicp60* - Awaiting ov :o Using Agnus Castus this month
    CD17 Chloelouise - Awaiting ov :o ditto you and teamlowe!
    CD17 Vesper - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Abis21* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Trina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Marie – Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 RazWaz - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 MiffyMoo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 becca0417* – Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 apple*pie – Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Angeltreats - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Sidney88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 atton83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Lara44 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Goodvibes - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 NoAngel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 Thriftylass - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 jovie - Awaiting ov :o

    victoria270385 - do you know your CD, and/or DPO?
    fraz_babe - do you know your CD, and/or DPO? Remeber to put updates in pink so I see it.
    cozza - you are not on the lists? Do you want to be?

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone

    CD6 amus - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 Purcy – Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 kte - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov :o

    CD? Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o Feel bad putting you down here on your own!

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Hey ladies. Just home after a long day. No complications, and doctor said nothing unusual war visible, but will wait for tests now.

    Thanks for the good wishes. Solid sofa time now. :-)

    Ps . Excellent listage Becca.
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    glad to hear it went well t2d
    SA seems ok so far, details on other thread.
    doctor was an absolute twonk. told her we was just there for the results, she gave me two lectures about my weight, including the great line 'losing weight shows how much you want to get pregnant', we shouldnt put pressure on ourselves, we should feel fortunate to be so young and should realise we're already a family anyway
    ...
    !!!!!!
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • cozza123
    cozza123 Posts: 197 Forumite
    Becca

    yes please can you put me on the list i need all the help i can :)
    SPC member 68
    Loan 6579
  • vic3
    vic3 Posts: 804 Forumite
    6DPO for me today. Will be keeping a close eye on my temp, especially tomorrow. My temps are still quite high, well above pre-ovulation.
    Got some spots, like I usually do before AF :( I'm really hoping it's because I felt very stressed out yesterday.

    Hope you recover quickly T2D x
    DS born November 2013 :smileyhea
  • amyloofoo
    amyloofoo Posts: 1,804 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    TeamLowe wrote: »
    glad to hear it went well t2d
    SA seems ok so far, details on other thread.
    doctor was an absolute twonk. told her we was just there for the results, she gave me two lectures about my weight, including the great line 'losing weight shows how much you want to get pregnant', we shouldnt put pressure on ourselves, we should feel fortunate to be so young and should realise we're already a family anyway
    ...
    !!!!!!

    What an absolute peenarrse... Hope you're feeling okay (:o) after that ordeal and that you and OH are taking good care of each other. Some people really aren't cut out to work with emotionally vulnerable people, and it sounds like this doctor is one of them :eek: You've already done so well with the weight loss, and I know you have all the appreciation and PMA in the world when it's at all possible... maybe see if you could consult with someone else next time? I must admit I would probably have snapped and said something along the lines of "the thing that most shows how much I want to get pregnant is my willingness to listen to insensitive pr!cks like yourself", but then again I seem to be very irritable at the moment :rotfl: Will go and catch up on the other thread for results, but glad you at least got some positive news out of the experience :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
  • becca0417
    becca0417 Posts: 3,114 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    T2d glad it went well xx

    Cozza what cycle day are you??

    TL what an absolute idiot of a doctor, I really feel for you having to listen to such utter carp. I would also try & see another doctor xx
    First baby due 3/3/14 - Team Yellow! Our little girl born 25/2/14 :D
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