Trying for a Baby Part 8

sweaty_betty

amyloofoo wrote: »

With regards to your symptoms... normally we try to avoid symptom spotting on here (both because it leads to disappointment and because QQ scolds us!)

Thanks - sorry, I understand why it's probably best to avoid symptom spotting etc. I'm just feeling so rubbish that I'm hanging on to the hope it's for a good reason!

QQuaver

sweaty_betty wrote: »

I'm on CD13 (I think, I'm working from the beginning of my m/c) and usually ovulate early (CD10-11) judging by previous pregnancy and the latest m/c.

If you ov'd at CD10, then you are still only 3DPO. It takes at least 7 days for the embryo to implant and start producing hcg hormones (and morning sickness), so I'd say it's too early for pg symptoms.

But then again, with your recent mc, your hormones could be out of whack and you may have ov'd earlier.

Hope it's the beany doing it's mischief, but it could also be a bug. If it's a bug, hope it clears soon, and if it was the bean, let us know!:wave:

vesper

TeamLowe wrote: »

can't remember who asked but conceiveplus is great, feels really natural x x

It was me, thanks for the advice everyone. Think for the sake of £15 it's got to be worth a go. Won't be this month though as should Ov anytime now. I said to order it off amazon, hubby just turned around and said nahhhh he would walk into Boots and get it. I wouldn't dare, I would be far too embarrassed. Then thought about ebay, but my dad has a habit at looking at what we have bought (only because we keep buying bits for our classic cars and he checks the price of them). That would be terrible, my dad seeing that we were being conceive plus (I know you can make the private, but hubby would prob forget).

I think my parents have guessed we are trying to conceive now, but only because me and my mum have been clearing my childhood stuff out and I keep asking her to keep stuff. She did confirm though that I am likely to be the only one out of my family to have children, my cousins are getting too old now and have never had girlfriends even, and my sister has decided she never ever wants children, as she hates them. How can you hate children???? :eek:

TeamLowe

sweaty_betty wrote: »

Thanks - sorry, I understand why it's probably best to avoid symptom spotting etc. I'm just feeling so rubbish that I'm hanging on to the hope it's for a good reason!

Big dodgy hugs, i really hope it's for a good reason too
when did you stop bleeding? maybe it's made you a little anemic if you lost a lot?
Keept taking good care of yourself, you've been through a lot x x

fannyanna

QQ - can you please change me to CD4? Thanks

tinkwings wrote: »

I was brave & held my friends baby today.....................

Well done tinkwings. How did you feel about it afterwards?

lemonmelon wrote: »

Hello ladies, I'm hoping you'll have me back over here?

I'm very sad to let you know our third pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 12 weeks and we're back to square one (or maybe square zero). I'd really like to come back here as you ladies have all been so kind and supportive in the past and I think I'm going need somebody to talk to as we try again - its quite a daunting prospect.

We've been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic for tests but everything takes a really long time (even to get an appointment) so I think we're going to try again in the mean time, especially as we're not really in a position to hang around. Can you count me as CD2 today? I'm counting the last day of bleeding after ERPC as CD1 as my cycles have always been longer immediately afterwards.

So... hello again :-) I'm sad you haven't all got Big Fat Sticky Positives while I've been away but its nice to see some familiar faces.

There isn't really any sufficient words so I just wanted to give some hugs :grouphug:

codemonkey wrote: »

Been assaulted by facebook pregnancy announcements, all 'happy little accidents", all accompanied by scan pics, a pregnant woman moaning thaf she wants to go into labour, pregnant friends moaning about being pregnant, a pregnant friend asking me where she'd get sexy maternity undies and tpday a bump photo of a heavily pregnant woman, taken in the mirror, wearing the tightest dress ever.

:mad: Grrr to facebook. I think I've got to the point where the majority of my facebook friends are now blocked. Finding out how to stop people appearing in my timeline was a brilliant moment

loulou123

A big GRRR from me to Facebook too, 2 of my friends on their are preg at mo and another 2 have recently had babies, so feels like my feed is full of pregnancy and babies...add to that my preg friend at work and my preg sister in law and I cant get away from it.

I had a moan at hubby again last night, as he "forgot" his docs appointment for swimmers test, and now apparently can't phone for a new appointment, as work will be too busy for few weeks! After my moan he then admitted the reason he doesn't want to go is part embarrassment and part because he's worried the problem (if there is one) is down to him, and that I'll blame him, as he chose to take some "medication" that is known to effect fertility a few years ago. I just want to know what's going on and if we do have a problem then see if we can fix it.

But to be honest I've pretty much given up on ever getting preg, last month I was 2 days late and didn't even bother poas as didn't want to see another BFN.

Oh and I've got a huge spot on my face too - I never get spots and I swear its a boil!

Sorry for long and woe is me post, just feeling down tonight.

Metranil_Vavin

Sorry chaps, just a quickie..

Is it possible to still have EWCM after you have ov'd?

I have Googled but to be honest so many people say so many different things.

I've had EWCM on and off this past week so tried to BD around the time it's appeared, also used up my last 2 digi ov sticks on cd's 13 and 14, no smiley (I usually ov around cd 14), not tested again since as have no more sticks and promised myself I wasn't going to go bonkers with the whole POAS thing this month.

I don't know if the 2 CP's have messed up my cycle (it seemed ok after the 1st one, but this month I have no idea).

went to the loo today and (sorry..tmi coming up) had a huge gloop of the stuff practically hanging out of me (sorry).

I don't think either OH or I are really up for anymore jiggy this evening, but maybe I haven't ov'd yet..or maybe I'm not going to?

Sorry for the self-indulgent post, but if anyone has any wise words I'd be very grateful.

Metranil_Vavin

I am on CD17 today, so normally would be calling it 3DPO, but I don't know if I've even ov'd

trina2010

MV - apart from the digi sticks i couldve written that, i was sure i had ov'd, but ive had cm ever since (the non fertile stuff) and ive just had the same as uve had tonight.
fortunately DH was here and BDng was had within a few minutes of discovery, so ive no idea whats going on either!
dam these fickle bodies!
ps, have a dodgy hug :grouphug:

Metranil_Vavin

Thanks trina.

I just can't see BDing happening this evening..we're both pooped!

We did BD on Saturday though, so hopefully if I am fertile the little swimmers may still be about.

I'm not pinning much hope on this month anyway, but have ordered in a new batch of cb digi ov sticks from Amazon ready for next.