Trying for a Baby Part 8

angeltreats

becca0417 wrote: »

Hi everyone hope you are all ok, not time to read back.

AF is 3/4 days late - tested again and BFN.

Will go and read back now..

Fingers crossed!

I am also a day late but not optimistic about it. I read somewhere that if you are late it is probably because you ovulated late, as your luteal phase almost always stays the same. Not sure how true that is. FF messed with my days this month and decided I ov'd on CD19 when I was convinced it was CD17, and I had a BFN on CD13. Keep wondering if I'm feeling cramps but I think it's more to do with the fifteen gallons of coffee I've drank over the last three days, trying to keep myself awake at this course so I can actually learn what I need to learn to pass an exam on Monday. Also thinking that stress (about the exam) is probably keeping AF back too.

Coops - so sorry you had such a rotten experience at the doctor. I can't understand why they're not more sympathetic, and it surprises me to hear that they don't approve of temping - surely that's a no brainer?

becca0417

I'm late even counting from when I *think* I ovulated (I say think as not sure I did). I am now convincing myself I am pregnant, even though every test I have taken has been completely BLANK! Why am I CRAZY?!!!

Hope you don't get AF and a nice BFP instead!

angeltreats

Becca, how long is your cycle normally? At CD44 I would be starting to get excited...

becca0417

It's usually 32 days ish but the last 2 have been 40 days. I'm definitely not pregnant, I've had loads of blank tests with FMU even the really low ones (10miu) and I don't feel anything. Not AF-y nothing.

atton83

Could i be updated to 5DPO please not 7 your 2 days ahead of me lol

Today i went to uni only to start stressing and thinking i am so dumb :mad: even though i am one of the few people getting the highest marks in my assignments

i still havent completed assignment 3 and i am starting to stress alot

i wanted to be floating along in excitment for my wedding

at the moment i just want it all over with now

help ladies, im even thinking what is the point :eek::mad:

canistan not burning now phew think its nrly gone yay never had it before and never want it again

TeamLowe

mum casually dropped into conversation whilst cuddling my niece that my cousin is expecting his first baby in May. sooo i've not been happy since. didn't help that i went to asda straight after and accidentally walked down the maternity wear aisle

so that's another christmas to spend staring at a pregnant woman whilst desperately wishing it was me. fun fun

bit miffed i didn't get cake this time, like i did when they told me my sister was pregnant :rotfl:

Birdie85

Hugs TeamLowe, can't be nice I'm lucky that we're not terribly close to our extended families so at least we don't have to deal with pregnant cousins all the time! Would have been nice for your Mum to soften the blow with cake though! Get her sorted!

Hope you've just got a shy bean Becca and AF stays the heck away!

Welcome Anderson! :wave:

PMA Raz, it only takes one BD to make a baby so if you go to see your donor thinking 'this is it' maybe it will be?!

Having a little shopping *thing* at mine tonight and my pregnant SIL will be there with her little bump and my friends will be fawning over her as they've not seen her since she got PG... blegh, might make them all sit in my bedroom under the pretence that there aren't enough chairs so I don't have to listen to it!

tea_lover

teamlowe - you should definitely have got cake for that! Sometimes I'm glad I have no cousins.
becca - big hugs for late AF, fingers crossed it is just a shy BFP.
Razwaz - you only need one sperm! Good luck .
Hello new person (anderson?? sorry if that's not right). Hope your stay here is happy and short... for all the right reasons.

I had the weirdest dreams last night. Dreamt that I found a woman and her tiny baby outside my house. She didn't want the baby so said I could have him so I just took him inside and started reading him stories. I then dreamt that I woke up and told OH about this dream, but that was a dream as well. Then I dreamt I accidentally broke into my neighbour's house.

I always have mad, vivid dreams though... before anyone starts ss for me lol.

In PAIN today so guess that means AF must be on the way (am 10dpo). I also cried last night over the soundtrack to Jeff Wayne's War of the Worlds :rotfl:.

Metranil_Vavin

Morning gang.

Tea - I have really weird vivid dreams too. Those ones where you keep thinking you've woken up but in fact you haven't are just weird!

We've paid to put DS into the childminder for an extra day today as I am getting my hair cut ready for his christening this weekend.

My mum isn't well so can't look after him, and as there is no one else I can ask, it is going to be a pretty expensive haircut (£63 for her to take him for the day)

Still it means I have a day to myself which is quite nice as I am still feeling really down and hopeless about everything.

TeamLowe it is so crappy when you find out unexpectedly that someone else is pregnant. The girl at work who is now about 22 weeks keeps sashaying past my desk with that rally exaggerated 'pregnant walk' that some women do. It really gets me down, and I am finding her quite irritating to be honest.

ScienceGrrl

Hi ladies, thanks for the welcomes

I am so inpatient! Have only been trying since August but I guess i just thought it would happen straight away! Everyone I know seems to have got pregnant "accidentally" and I spent all my time up until this year trying NOT to get pregnant... now it's like "oh, it isn't as easy as I thought"!

I think I'm frustrated because I need to get pregnant either this cycle or next, otherwise we have to stop trying for a year. This is because I'm a postgrad student and am due to finish my PhD next September, and I'm only entitled to maternity leave if I give birth before then, obvs. After that I need to find a job, and then I'd need to be in a job for a little while before I could be like "oh, I'm off to have a baby..." etc... blah!

So that's my sad little story, lol!