Trying for a Baby Part 8

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD39 MrsHappy - 26DPO :cool:
CD68 i love holidays - 23DPO :cool:
CD46 TeamLowe - 18DPO :cool:
CD26 codemonkey - 11DPO :cool:
CD29 Elsie37 - 10DPO :cool:
CD30 Birdie85* - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 RazWaz - 8DPO :cool:
CD24 Squ1rrel5 - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 PommeVerte - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 Metranil Vavin - 7DPO :cool:
CD34 Purcy81 - 7DPO :cool:
CD105 Lily_The_Legend - 7DPO :cool:
CD22 minimuffin12 - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 COMP - 6DPO :cool:
CD31 QQuaver*- 3DPO :cool:
CD20 lilymay - 1DPO :cool:
CD23 benhope - High CBFM :cool:

CD131 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD90 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD80 jellybean12 - Awaiting ov
CD69 fraz_babe - Awaiting ov
CD66 ticklepenny - Awaiting ov
CD63 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD57 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD52 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD43 Lilian1977 - Awaiting ov
CD37 Amus - Awaiting ov
CD34 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD33 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD30 becca0417 – Awaiting ov
CD29 Tealover – Awaiting ov
CD26 maire - Awaiting ov
CD25 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD24 coops228 - Awaiting ov
CD24 Lily the Legend - Awaiting ov
CD24 lao_cat - Awaiting ov
CD24 Hopelass - Awaiting ov
CD22 Gemmzie - Awaiting ov
CD20 lao_cat - Awaiting ov
CD19 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD18 Angeltreats - Awaiting ov
CD16 good vibes - Awaiting ov
CD14 time2deal - Awaiting ov
CD14 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD12 firefly369 - Awaiting ovo:o
CD12 apple*pie – Awaiting ov
CD10 JoJoB - Awaiting ov
CD7 Abis21 - Awaiting ov
CD5 amyloofoo - Awaiting ov
CD5 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD4 atton83 - Awaiting ov


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

minimuffin12

birdie, my Dh is the same, very private so much so that he hasn't even got a fb account as he hates the thought of nosey people on there knowing his business.. I would be cross too if that was my mil.

QQuaver

Sorry I'm late again, work is taking up all my time at the mo:o
It won't be like this forever though, only until the end of Nov:cool:

Elsie, :grouphug:, hope AF won't come:(
lilymay, 1DPO? Not 6DPO?
smookle, welcome:wave:
I've added you to the list on the first page, let me know if you'd like your age added:)
As for pressed, I've used them and it's fine. Just don't use too much:p
MV, hope it's the bean causing mischief:)
lily the legend, when will you get the results for the D21 test?
Birdie, (((hugs))). MILs are always going to be difficult:o
tea lover, I've told complete strangers about IVF too:o

TeamLowe

Hi all
Wanting to post loads but not much to say, you know? No idea what's going on with my body and honestly I could scream in frustration if my cycle is messed up again. Sod's law it would be the one after/during my appointment with the gynae when they said everything was fine. Going to take matters into my own hands at the weekend and ill do a test to confirm I'm barren as always then the take the noristhisterone and hope its just a dodgy one and the next cycle will be fine.
Course I won't know for another 4/5 weeks til I hopefully ovulate, which would make, what 2 of the 6 months we have before we go back, wasted.
I was so enthusiastic when we left the gynae's office, really thought there'd be no way we'd be back in march as I'd be pregnant. Now I'm working how much weight I can lose to please the gynae when we do go back.

Sorry. Just things really suck right now

Metranil_Vavin

Don't apologise TeamLowe. It sounds like you are going through a really tough time.

x

claire16c

I feel so frustrated right now. I came home and did an opk because I thought frankly Im exhausted so I need to know if we really need to bd tonight because if its negative we dont have to :rotfl:

So then it turned positive, which is 1. great because like I said in my previous post its the earliest for ages, 5 months or something ridiculous and Im over the moon about that because I spent 99% of my life it seems worrying about long cycles and what is wrong with me. but 2. if I dont get pg it now means for certain AF in middle of holiday. Which sucks. I mean it doesnt stop me doing anything its just irritating on a beach holiday out of all the time it could have come.

but because my temp is up a bit today I was panicking thinking maybe I already ov like earlier today so I said to dh quick we have to bd! Poor DH is so tired again but ran upstairs, and then...couldnt err complete. He had no problems 'performing' but couldnt finish. this has never happened before, at least not in like so long I cant remember and never when ttc. I dont know if he was under or over excited or what. Prob just tired.

So I was trying not to cry because clearly thats not going to help im just so frustrated. Anyway hes now on his ipad and were going to try again later. he said if nothing happens then, he'll come home from work tomorrow at 7.45am to bd before I go to work :eek: which is very nice of him and will probably make me late but i feel like what if this is our only chance for months. And then we'll be under even more pressure.

So just keeping my fingers crossed. I just cant believe I seem to have a normal cycle about 3 !!!!!!! times a year, this is one of them and its not b**dy working for us!!!:mad:

claire16c

TeamLowe wrote: »

Hi all
Wanting to post loads but not much to say, you know? No idea what's going on with my body and honestly I could scream in frustration if my cycle is messed up again. Sod's law it would be the one after/during my appointment with the gynae when they said everything was fine. Going to take matters into my own hands at the weekend and ill do a test to confirm I'm barren as always then the take the noristhisterone and hope its just a dodgy one and the next cycle will be fine.
Course I won't know for another 4/5 weeks til I hopefully ovulate, which would make, what 2 of the 6 months we have before we go back, wasted.
I was so enthusiastic when we left the gynae's office, really thought there'd be no way we'd be back in march as I'd be pregnant. Now I'm working how much weight I can lose to please the gynae when we do go back.

Sorry. Just things really suck right now

What kind of test are you going to do? Or you mean ov test?
Hugs!!:)

Metranil_Vavin

Claire I can totally sympathise with the stress of BD'ing to order issue.

OH and I had the exact same thing last week. We struggled all evening trying to DTD, and like your DH, my OH couldn't finish the deed. It was awful, and I was upset and he was upset and angry that it wasn't working.

Horrible.

I really can't bear the thought of going through all that again next month, but what can you do? You either don't chart your cycles/do OPK's and leave it to fate, or you do and have to be a bit militant about when you DTD.

It sucks.

good_vibes

QQ you do a great job of the list, I know i couldn't do. So no need to be sorry. please could you change me to age 36
Sorry teamlowe that your cycle is playing up and it's masking that it's sorting it's self out.
Lilymay my thoughts are with you.
Damn it, still not had opk+. Only thing I did different this month was do a one off night shift (not done for years)
Do you think this may have effected Ov?

claire16c

codemonkey wrote: »

This! I've been feeling this way since ov. Last night I started crying, big proper chest hurting somebody has died type sobs because DH was upset with me about a pizza and today I just really wanted to go back to bed and stay there. If I'm not crying I am angry. Not a good lp for me at all.

hugs lilymay. Cant imagine how bad you're feeling.

Congratulations on the engagement apple.

Ive been like that before and I think DH thinks Im a crazy woman I honestly sometimes think if I dont have a good cry for a couple of months its like it builds up and I have to let it out or it wont go away.

tea_lover wrote: »

Birdie - if it's any consolation you can always talk on here. Somewhere to vent is essential (for me, at least) and knowing that this place is here has definitely saved my sanity on more than one occasion. Hopefully your DH will realise you were just trying to avoid future insensitive comments from her. Big hugs, hope it's all sorted soon.

On a similar note, I randomly told a woman at work yesterday that I was starting IVF soon. Where the f did that come from?!? a) it's not even true!! b) she's a right gossip, and c) I don't even know her that well. Have literally no idea why the words came out lol.

Oh no. So now everyone will think youre doing ivf?! Oh well I guess there are worse things you could have said lol!

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Claire I can totally sympathise with the stress of BD'ing to order issue.

OH and I had the exact same thing last week. We struggled all evening trying to DTD, and like your DH, my OH couldn't finish the deed. It was awful, and I was upset and he was upset and angry that it wasn't working.

Horrible.

I really can't bear the thought of going through all that again next month, but what can you do? You either don't chart your cycles/do OPK's and leave it to fate, or you do and have to be a bit militant about when you DTD.

It sucks.

Thats it. And with my cycles I dont really have a choice. I need to know that we have done all we can that month or Ill feel even worse. Otherwise I wont know when Im in the 2ww or anything. I mean sometimes I get EWCM on the day of ov, other times a week before. So I cant know for certain.

Thankfully just as I finished typing my last post DH called me upstairs and managed to finish this time! The thing is though,hes rather well endowed which yeah yeah people might say Im lucky but actually Im just sore and it doesnt help actually the thought of doing it tomorrow almost makes me want to grit my teeth I normally need a day to recover sorry tmi! but its true and the whole thing is just so stressful. Also yesterday he said he did some diy in the day time because he didnt know I was about to ov, neither did I! so Im wondering how much sperm would even have been left, so Im focusing all hopes on today and tomorrow.

I think if I had a normal cycle I wouldnt worry as much but its the thought of potentially not oving again for another 8 weeks or whatever that drives me crazy because Im convinced I wont get pg when I ov too late. So I have to take these few chances so that even if I dont get pg, I know we tried as much as we can, I dont want to regret anything.