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  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    edited 21 September 2013 at 8:26AM
    Hello Diary and Dear Friends, :hello:

    Sammr, thanks for de-lurking and welcome to Flying Solo! Have pm'd you about your kind offer. :T
    Cooooooeeeee!!! Anyone home? Xx

    Hi Lucky, yes we're here. :)
    Somewhat shaken [literally, this morning] by the Mayor's road-mending team who were thundering up and down the track well before 7am today!
    Honestly, I thought a military helicopter was landing in the garden; dogs had vanished, ornaments juddered off shelves as a visceral thudding roared.. :eek:
    So much for sleep (two hours :cool:).

    Been having a bit of trouble with getting enough rest lately; can't seem to break the cycle of three hours up, three hours flat.
    Of course new parents survive this, but I'm struggling.
    Thinking of trying 5HTP to boost serotonin production and fool m'brain into deep sleep, but will ask El Medico's opinion first as it's not a supplement that should be taken without caution (but hopefully better than side-effects from sleeping pills!).

    Meanwhile such energy as I've had, has been spent on looking on-line at property for sale and fighting Paperwork Mountain which appears to be multiplying by itself. :o

    It's been a spendy time too; obviously DS4 needs a short-term rental until we can find him an acceptable, affordable flat. Setting that up has hurt - a four figure sum which has gone forever into another landlord's pocket, no longer available to invest. :(

    Best flat for sale found in my most recent search yesterday, is on 70% shared ownership - so must find out more about pros and cons of that scheme. This flat will probably be gone by the time I've worked out whether or not it's feasible, but the knowledge will be useful for next week's search.
    Property seems to be selling really fast in the city, but at least new possibilities are coming on the market every time I check RM.

    More finances; due to brain fog I forgot to 'phone FD when my regular savings a/c closed, so have incurred four days' OD charges on £250.
    Is it worth starting an ISA for a few weeks?
    ..Calling FD is on today's list.

    Other news: Divo Two and GF are going to spend the weekend at PC's cottages, so I'd better make sure they've got clean bedding and find the energy to get into town, so that we can share Sunday lunch. :)
    :think: Need a shopping list - back to every penny counting if Plan F is to have any chance of becoming reality.
    Ummmm... here goes...
    The original photos need to be uploaded to an online album somewhere.

    HAW - this is where I get stuck. :o
    Thanks very much for the instructions; am going to have to come back to learning this later when brain is working better - or possibly ask DS2 to set it up for his stupid ol' Mum? Give him something to do besides sleep while I'm cooking his lunch and GF is grooming Daft Dogs. :rotfl:

    Sorry haven't visited many diaries recently - hope life is treating you all kindly at the moment, dear friends. :lovethoug
  • Thanks for the update and glad you're ok Robin :D
    *Robin* wrote: »
    HAW - this is where I get stuck. :o

    Ok... Ummmm..... Well I'll make an attempt at least! I'll PM the details shortly and you can just try it when you're feeling up to it (or leave it to DS ;))

    How'd you end up with OD charges on FD when the Regular Saver closed? Did they transfer the money to your e-Saver or something ok?
    Wealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out
  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    edited 21 September 2013 at 8:09AM
    How quickly life can change.

    Managed a three hour siesta after posting earlier, then the sound of madly scrabbling paws clicking on the tiled floor brought conciousness rushing back..
    Dear Fat Dog was fighting to get unruly legs beneath her, panting and drooling, eyes flickering rapidly from left to right. :eek:

    Stroke?
    ..Got her wet jacket on which seemed to help instantly, then she staggered around for a while before I was able to persuade her to lie on her bed.

    Had to call on the friend network; a young man I'd never met before [mate of DS3 who was visiting Ex] came and helped us get to the vet. Can't carry a 20kg dog m'self, and very much doubt she would have made it down the steps under her own steam.

    After two hours, lots of attention from two vets and several tests, I reluctantly had to accept their advice and leave poor Fat Dog in hospital on a drip tonight.
    Tomorrow we should know whether it was a stroke, heart attack, or some type of fit caused by a tumour. And thence what prognosis she has.

    Clever Dog hasn't moved from my side since we got home. Feels very strange not to have FD nudging my hand for a cuddle every time she walks past my chair.
    Keeping digits crossed and trying to stay positive - know how much difference decent hydration can make, and the drugs Dear Vet has given her should hopefully at least make FD more comfortable by tomorrow.
    How'd you end up with OD charges on FD when the Regular Saver closed? Did they transfer the money to your e-Saver or something ok?

    HAW I failed to set up a DD to shift the £300 regular saving into the right a/c. This is the first month I've forgotten to do it manually in time.
    Still haven't 'phoned bank - dog emergency rather got in the way. :o

    Thanks for the detailed instructions re 'photos; yes Linux (an Irish version). Will have a go when more brain cells are functioning - don't hold your breath though, lol.

    Bed time folks; night night. :)
  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Oh fingers etc crossed for FD .... Keep us updated x
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • Sending positive vibes for your dear dog Robin

    big hugs

    xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Knit_Witch
    Knit_Witch Posts: 4,436 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    oh noes to FD - I hope it isn't anything too serious
    Must use my stash up!
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hope FD is ok. Bunny is keeping his paws crossed
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • Piquant_2
    Piquant_2 Posts: 5,769 Forumite
    PPI Party Pooper Mortgage-free Glee! Debt-free and Proud!
    Dear robin, I do hope that FD is feeling better and you have not suffered a worry filled sleepless night. My love to you and the dogs.

    Piq x
    Total debt at October 2008: £67,213.30
    Total debt today: £0
    - debt and mortgage free 29th November 2013 :T
    Sealed Pot Challenge member 14
    Save £12K in 2014 - £6,521.90/£6K member 138



  • I hope FD is ok today xxx sending love and hugs xxx
    MORTGAGE BALANCE when we moved Aug 2024, £120,000. January 1st £118,267.06. May 1st, £116, 123, June 1st, £115,536, New mortgage added for extension- £165,000 July 1st!
    Mortgage Overpayments - September-December, £152.46. J- £103.27, F- £115, M- £91.50, A- £100, M- £200, J- £200. J- £200. Aug-£200.
    Total- £1362.23
    Goal pay off 1% of current mortgage in 1 year. £1650

    EF- first goal £300
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I hope you and dear FD had a good night's rest and that FD is ok this morning, Thinking of you both

    Granny x
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
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