Enough is Enough

freebird65

Bump!

Anyone heard from Gem? Gem, if you're around, please just PM someone to let them know you're ok, even if you don't feel like talking. Look after yourself!

smashedbooboo

Hi peeps. I have not heard anything from my e.mail to gem. I am hoping she is a little overwhelmed to post and she is just reading her thread. I am praying so. I just keep sending her a hug every now and again. I dont want her to feel alone. She has no need to be. I really do fret in situations like this. So if yoyr there gem, we are thinking about you and we are all here when you are ready to talk. Posting up your SOA was a big thing. But also it puts it into black and white. And i understand that can be really scary. But at least it can worked on bit bit. Like a dog at a bone. Just keep nibbling at it. It takes time but things will seem brighter soon. big hugs hun. xxxxxxx

MikeyB_2

We still haven't heard back from Gem so bumpety bump in the hope that it will be seen be her. Gem if you're out there please give us a message back just to tell us that you are OK

Gemqueen

Cooeeeeeeeeeeeee everyone, huge apologies, I got bolshy with AOL and they cut me off...!!

STATUS: MARCH 2007

I have also managed to get a job in a pub - its only for a few weeks, but it pays.
I have contacted both CCCS and Payplan.
I have a couple of interviews due next week to for other jobs.
The council tax and rent allowances have been sent to the respective offices.
I have ditched sky.
I am waiting for the Halifax to get back to me regarding the application of a basic bank account.
Several items are in the local paper to sell.
2 Car boot sales organised for April and May.

A hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee thanks to you all for making me feel like a human being again, and apologies to SmashedBoo for all the bumping she has done on this thread!

I am very grateful to you all, and my god, did not expect a message from the "Great one" - Martin - if he cant spur me on who can?

Thank you all for the extra tips, they are extremely helpful, and I will be working on those. I will try and update my thread with details.

SMASHEDBOO: You have been so helpful.. in my small way I urge you to post your SOA - it is liberating, it lifts the gloom from your shoulders, u feel a sense of freedom and that dark,heavy weight is lifted. Post it sweetie, u have NOTHING to lose. xx

smashedbooboo

Goodmorning chick, welcome back.So pleased you are ok. And you sound brilliant. Well done. You have come such a long way in such a small amount of time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Toto

Moring Gem, I'm glad to see everything is going in the right direction for you, you've done so well, I can't believe what you have achieved in such a short time. I was on aol and they can be stroppy sods I know, I told them I wanted to cancel my broadband in a months time because I was going to a cheaper company, so after what seemed like a couple of hours of the hard sell, they decided to cut me off as soon as I got off the phone. I was happy!!

moonlightpjs

Glad to see you back and that you are ok - you sound much more positive!!!!
Keep posting and let us know how you are getting on.
Good luck with the job by the way, you never know they just might keep you on.
Take care xx

chevalier

glad to see you are on the up and up. Well done about the temp job.
chev

mizmir

Wow Gem - just found your thread and wanted to add a belated welcome and a huge WELL DONE! You are doing brilliantly - so much done in such a short time. This site as you have found out is wonderful - the people here will help you tirelessly as long as you need it. Keep hanging in there - there are many ways to pull yourself out of this - it may take time but you WILL make it.

Take care and keep posting (AOL permitting! )
M.

mattfiona

So pleased to see you posting- I know I don't know you and I'm only new on this forum but I was worried about you. Everyone has offered wonderful advice and I really hope you are back on your feet soon -I'm sure you will be!

Take care xx