Enough is Enough

smashedbooboo

Hello peeps. I have just e.mailed gem queen so hopefully she might reply to that. Will keep you posted. Thank you every one for coming together. Its times like this i feel i can be useful. If only for a little while. My other dragged me down so much i felt worthless. And i DO NOT EVER want anyone else to feel like that. We are all so much better when we are part of a team and noone need be alone even if it is only a virtual family and friends as such. Take care and night night everyone. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

smashedbooboo

morning gem. Hope you are following your thread. And hope you are feeling a bit better today. Even if you dont feel you can post at the moment just remember we are all thinking about you. And will be there for you when you are ready hun. Remember you are not alone in your situation. If you were then MSE would be very quiet. This site is for folk like us and we are not here to judge. Take care chick xxxxxxxx and good morning to everyone else as well.

moonlightpjs

Hi Gemqueen
Just wanted to add that I hope you are ok. Quite understand if you feel like not posting but just remember we are all here when you need us for whatever reason and you must not feel like you are alone, just let us know how you are if thats all you want to do. You've done such a lot since first posting that nobody could blame you if you are feeling overwhelmed.

This site is fantastic and you have seen how we all come together when somebody needs help, even SS starts flirting and thats not to be missed;) - you have even had a message from "the man" himself (Martin)- lucky you;) Anyway, will stop rambling on now so take care of yourself and remember we are all here for you so please dont feel like you are bothering anybody or taking up space - theres lots of space to be had!!!

Just let off steam, ask questions (somebody will always know the answer), have a vent, get angry - more or less do what ever you want - we'll be here!

Thinking of you
Lisa x

oops_a_daisy

Hi Gemqueen - Ive been away so have just caught up with your thread. Well done on posting your SOA and everything you have done so far. You really are doing so well and should be proud of yourself - I really hope you get sorted with CCCS or Payplan soon. I cant believe the support that everybody has given you - it really does make your realise that there are nice people in this world who do care.
All the best gem and keep posting to let us all know how you are getting on.

smashedbooboo

Bump. Now come on. I am getting covered in bruises here doing so much bumping. Actually got a glass coffee table and just smacked my shin on it. OOOOOOOH that hurt.

smashedbooboo

Actually the way i feel this very minute , actually will go to my own thread of i need a hug. Thats if i can find it, back in a minute x

Penny2myName

smashedbooboo wrote: »

Bump. Now come on. I am getting covered in bruises here doing so much bumping. Actually got a glass coffee table and just smacked my shin on it. OOOOOOOH that hurt.

That explains your name then;)
Come on GemQueen give us all a slight wave, Smashedbooboo's table can only take so much.

havekidsamskint

Hi gemqueen,

i've only just found your thread, i hven't much more to add other than you are strong enough to get thru this, you have already posted here and that took guts. You have a lot of people sending you good wishes and thinking of you.

please post soon just to let us know you are OK:grouphug:

MikeyB_2

I was reading through this thread earlier and it is a great example of just how wonderful the DFW gang are - bump

GemQueen I hope you're holding on in there and can get back to us with an update to let us know you're alright :-)

Cat121

Hi Gem,

Firstly I hope that your okay and just taking some time out. I've not been here long myself but wanted to let you know you are far from alone x

Last year my ex's secret spending resulted in the end of our relationship, me losing my house to bankruptcy and my 4 yr old son and I sitting on my mum's doorstep in despair. The ex - now away at her majesty's pleasure for fraud (not only me it turned out)!! My son and I - settled in rented accomodation now paying off the last of 'his' debts (caused by him not paying son's nursery the money I gave him to pay each month) - as some of it was after the bankruptcy date. Last year I felt there couldn't possibly be any way out - felt that I'd really let my son down - then found this website (thank you Trevor MacDonald :rotfl: ) and have 'lurked' for almost a year before finally posting. I can't begin to tell you how amazing the people on here are, how helpful and supportive everyone is. It made me realise that I wasn't alone, just as you aren't alone here either. It's amazing just how many people have been where I was and have come through it.

You will have a long way to go yet and it will at times appear impossible - but it isn't, post here to help keep you focused, talk to your family/friends or someone you can trust.

Most of all - take care of you, you found enough strength to post here for the first time - you are stronger than maybe you think you are. Take all the hugs offered here and use them frequently - you'll need them and it's okay to accept them xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx