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Butti's Journey: A matter of loaf and death

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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Butti wrote: »
    I'm in that horribly unsettled, not settled where I'm living, not settled in the job,

    Give them time. I know it's trite, but Rome was not built in a day...
    Butti wrote: »
    not settled in my love life

    Oh! News! <Pulls up a chair>
    Butti wrote: »
    sort of thing. I'm living in a house where getting hot water out of the shower is a daily test,

    You don't have to milk it do you? How's it a test?
    Butti wrote: »
    the landlady is passive aggressive, clearly demonstrated in her ubiquitous use of those cut out words 'Calm' 'Relax' WHILST NOT HAVING AN EFFING LOCK ON THE EFFING BATHROOM DOOR. Irony anyone?

    I think it's more she fancies you, rather than irony.
    Butti wrote: »
    This weekend I go home and paint the bathroom ceiling and see the crazy lodger (rather than the crazy landlady here!) and go to the funeral of my ex-boyfriend. Oh joy!

    Hope it goes OK for you.
    Butti wrote: »
    Anyway I hate living here but love living in the village. I think I am

    ...slightly pregnant?

    Or is that just the pause?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    she replied.



    the Bishop added.

    You are evil Mr Z!
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Tut! Stop editting your posts after I reply to them raspberry.gif
    Butti wrote: »
    Anyway I hate living here but love living in the village.

    "Here" being the South?
    Butti wrote: »
    I think I am just a bit tired of how difficult things sometimes are. You lot get up in the morning and get in the shower and it's hot, I have no such certainty.

    Well I don't because I have no shower - but I know what you mean. No hot water = third world.
    Butti wrote: »
    In terms of the budget I think I will work it out on a daily/weekly basis for the daily costs. At present it looks like;

    Food £4.28 daily £30 per week
    Petrol for commuting £25 per week
    Sport £4.90 p/wk
    Newspapers £3.30 p/wk
    Entertainment £19 per wk

    The daily food is really simple at the moment because I don't want to cook anything at home;
    Porridge from MacD's for breakfast 99p
    Make sarnies and fruit for lunch £1.50
    Shop for something reduced at 7pm £1.70

    Don't you wish you were living my life?!!!!

    Hey you! :grouphug:

    Things will get better. This is just a foundation to your new life. One day you'll look back on this...and then buy a stronger lock for the bathroom door.

    It's difficult right now, but changes will occur, and things will be better for you. Just stick with it.
    Butti wrote: »
    Sorry, will try to be more upbeat for my next posting.

    Hey! This is *your* diary, and you can be downbeat/upbeat/Bronski beat all you like. You're not here to entertain, you're not the Turn.

    Just remember you have people rooting for you. Yes - even the Bishop...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Butti wrote: »
    You are evil Mr Z!

    I may stretch to "mildly naughty" at times...

    So long as it raises...a smile... :)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    Tut! Stop editting your posts after I reply to them raspberry.gif
    "Here" being the South?
    Here being in a house that looks nice but doesn't have consistant hot water, or a friendly landlady, or a lock on the bathroom, or permission to wear shoes indoors.


    [/QUOTE]Well I don't because I have no shower - but I know what you mean. No hot water = third world.
    Hey you! :grouphug:
    I like hot, hot baths, hot showers, hot men! Lukewarm really doesn't do it for me!




    Hey! This is *your* diary, and you can be downbeat/upbeat/Bronski beat all you like. You're not here to entertain, you're not the Turn.

    Just remember you have people rooting for you. Yes - even the Bishop...

    I'll avoid being Bronski Beat if you don't mind. I was always a bit more of a Black Sabbath type girl.

    Ta Z

    p.s. Multiple quotes - haven't quite cracked them!
    Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
    Diary 'Butti's journey : A matter of loaf or death'.
    Diary 2 'The whimsical tale of the Waterbed of Debt'
    48% off mortgage

    'one day I will be rich and famous…for now I'll just have to settle for being poor and incredibly sexy'. Vimrod Member of MIKE'S :cool: MOB
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Butti wrote: »
    Here being in a house that looks nice but doesn't have consistant hot water, or a friendly landlady, or a lock on the bathroom, or permission to wear shoes indoors.

    So start looking around. I know there will be certain notice periods you need to keep in mind, but you need to pump your workmates for information as to where to live, and where to avoid.

    Towns whose nickname is "Beruit" may be worth passing over.
    Butti wrote: »
    I like hot, hot baths, hot showers, hot men!

    Yeah yeah, then summer comes around and the complaints start... ;)
    Butti wrote: »
    Lukewarm really doesn't do it for me!

    And cold is a definate no no.
    Butti wrote: »
    I'll avoid being Bronski Beat if you don't mind. I was always a bit more of a Black Sabbath type girl.

    But you knew who they were - you're showing your age... :rotfl:
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Butti wrote: »
    p.s. Multiple quotes - haven't quite cracked them!

    The one with /QUOTE needs to be *after* the one with just QUOTE.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • beanielou
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    Good to see you z ~:wave:

    Butti~Hope weekend goes well.
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  • Butti
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    edited 22 September 2012 at 1:04AM
    Well I've come home to the dodgy lodger who has closed my windows in my bedroom despite a notice on my windowsill asking her not to. What next? Do you think I should offer to boot her out or just shoot her? (She is noticeably trying to avoid me - someone should tell her that I am here until Monday evening You can run but you can't hide).

    p.s. I appear to have forgotten wine from my food budget!

    p.p.s. no, it is there under entertainment - balancing a bottle of shiraz on my nose!!!!
    Debt LBM (08/09) £11,641. DEBT FREE APRIL 2021.
    Diary 'Butti's journey : A matter of loaf or death'.
    Diary 2 'The whimsical tale of the Waterbed of Debt'
    48% off mortgage

    'one day I will be rich and famous…for now I'll just have to settle for being poor and incredibly sexy'. Vimrod Member of MIKE'S :cool: MOB
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,551 Ambassador
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    As previously discussed your lodger is something else :rotfl:
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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