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eating, working and DLA

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  • Muttleythefrog
    Muttleythefrog Posts: 20,662 Forumite
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    edited 17 July 2012 at 6:32PM
    grummps wrote: »
    I'm simply looking at the facts as outlined by the OP!

    To say the least they are stretching the 'reminding and encouragement' bit too far.

    Have you not read what they have quoted?

    Has Autism and doesn't work, and can't manage his eating properly, and when he has worked, he goes underweight.. but when at home and not working, then thanks to the flexibility and hours available, he manages to eat and not go underweight.. And so he hasn't gone underweight in years as he hasn't worked in years, then can it be said that he needs help reminded to eat? He would need help if he worked..

    Yes.. but what people are saying is this approach may by symptomatic of the condition (rather than any calculated effort to subvert the course of a claim)... and the follow up responses actually suggest this is likely to me... note the Op twice asks for clarification as to whom the relevant section applies to... who is it for. There's hardly any facts here at all... that's what is important. I don't have autism... although a psychiatrist did say that his view was based on no history of evidence for such rather than any actual current evaluation. But when faced with the DLA form I found myself very much in a frame of thinking like someone else has outlined in this thread.. when I got to sections that weren't particularly relevant I found myself compelled to give a full answer when actually none was required. I found it very difficult to leave sections with a simple tick to say I had no problem with the activity.
    "Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack
  • grummps
    grummps Posts: 192 Forumite
    maybe the fact that they are now on benefits (not enough money to pay their own mortage off (still owing £100K at pension age) is because his wife never worked since the day her children were born. Interesting that they claim DLA

    I never said that there wasn't money available to pay off the mortgage - what I did say was that the money will not be available for quite a while, but we would like to move now.

    My wife has never worked as it was agreed between us that her place at home was more important than earning a second income.

    I claim DLA quite correctly - having proved what my needs are.
  • grummps
    grummps Posts: 192 Forumite
    hello Andy.

    Hello?????? Do we know each other?
  • grummps
    grummps Posts: 192 Forumite
    Yes.. but what people are saying is this approach may by symptomatic of the condition (rather than any calculated effort to subvert the course of a claim)... and the follow up responses actually suggest this is likely to me... note the Op twice asks for clarification as to whom the relevant section applies to... who is it for. There's hardly any facts here at all... that's what is important. I don't have autism... although a psychiatrist did say that his view was based on no history of evidence for such rather than any actual current evaluation. But when faced with the DLA form I found myself very much in a frame of thinking like someone else has outlined in this thread.. when I got to sections that weren't particularly relevant I found myself compelled to give a full answer when actually none was required. I found it very difficult to leave sections with a simple tick to say I had no problem with the activity.

    That is how I filled in both the ESA50 and the DLA renewal forms. Maybe that is why I failed both and had to send evidence in afterwards.
  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,679 Forumite
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    grummps wrote: »
    Hello?????? Do we know each other?

    Yes ......:rotfl:
  • grummps
    grummps Posts: 192 Forumite
    Yes ......:rotfl:

    I don't think so.

    I haven't been on this site very long and I would have remembered your name.
  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,679 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    grummps wrote: »
    I don't think so.

    I haven't been on this site very long and I would have remembered your name.

    I remember all of yours ;)
  • grummps
    grummps Posts: 192 Forumite
    I remember all of yours ;)

    What a wierd reply!

    I shall ignore you in the future, you don't seem to be such a nice person to know.

    One wierd cookie!
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