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  • Mado
    Mado Posts: 21,776 Forumite
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    edited 25 June 2012 at 10:48PM
    Judi wrote: »
    . :)

    Dont cry, i dont have any tissues :(
    Used them all up, did you?:whistle:
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  • LadyMorticia
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    It depends on the couple.

    As someone who is disabled and cannot "put out" that much, we have sex about once every two months! However, my husband and I aren't very sexual anyway and much prefer being intimate in other ways.

    It works for us.
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  • I generally find men want/can have sex almost all the time, and women go through phases which can be down to where they are in their cycle. Like so-

    Week 1 - blergh - 'week off'
    Week 2 and 3 - wahey!
    Week 4 - meh...
    Back to week one.

    :D
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  • Depends on so many factors. When I first got together with my husband, underwear was an un-necessary timewasting encumbrance ;)

    FF 5 years and we've settled down :D we can go up to 3 weeks without (but always cuddle, hug, snog [cue: children vomit] and are very tactile) or it's 3 times a day. We make time for each other and I think that communication is the key to a good relationship, it's as close when we "spoon" and just talk. Or spoon and I fall asleep. :rotfl:
  • atlantis187
    atlantis187 Posts: 1,550 Forumite
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    Thanks for all ur input guys.
    I have to be totally honest i'm no more clear than when I first asked the question.
    It has been really interesting and funny reading some of the replies and to be honest has made my day from all the laughs i've got from this thread. (I can see this turning into one of them reeeeeeeeeeeeely long threads). as the word sex is mentioned in the title.

    thanks again
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    Thanks for all ur input guys.
    I have to be totally honest i'm no more clear than when I first asked the question.
    Well that's because all people are different, as you have obviously found out at home.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • wayne
    wayne Posts: 317 Forumite
    we have olympic sex in our house.only occurs once in 4 years.
  • seven-day-weekend
    seven-day-weekend Posts: 36,755 Forumite
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    edited 26 June 2012 at 9:04AM
    Here's the answer:


    At 20-30 years -- Tri-daily
    At 30-40 years -- Tri-weekly
    At 40-50 years -- Try weekly
    At 50-60 years -- Try weakly
    At 60-70 years -- Try anything
    70 years and over -- Try to remember

    Seriously, there's no 'right' answer. You have to decide what suits you as a couple and not argue about it.
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  • pawsies
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    2-3 times a week. I like to build it up so it feels better. Doing it too much e.g. daily would make it more of a chore and I wouldn't appreciate it as much. Of course we still cuddle, kiss etc daily.
  • parsnipnose
    parsnipnose Posts: 35 Forumite
    But not with your OH surely??? Last week you were going to get them followed by a PI... if you are doing it 14 times a week where do they fit in the time to cheat??? What a machine...

    Where did i say i was getting a private Investigator on to my partner? The question i asked was would you hire a Private Investigator.

    tut tut
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