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for the ladies - pregnant and sucking belly in

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  • emma_b_4
    emma_b_4 Posts: 1,292 Forumite
    i am loving being pregnant and im very happy and proud to be a mummy to be, and not embarassed at all by my belly, its just a habit i cant seem to break and its driving me barmy!
  • I used to suck my belly in and people have only just noticed that I was pregnant when I was 7 months! Only 5 weeks to go - thank goodness
    it's not having what you want - it's wanting what you've got
  • emma_b_4
    emma_b_4 Posts: 1,292 Forumite
    thanks goodness im not the only one that makes me feel better!
  • liney
    liney Posts: 5,121 Forumite
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    I never minded having the bump, but i was very self conscious when i started to show as it just looked like id got abit tubby and not obviously pregnant! Perhaps subconsciously thats how you are thinking.

    Congratulations anyway )
    "On behalf of teachers, I'd like to dedicate this award to Michael Gove and I mean dedicate in the Anglo Saxon sense which means insert roughly into the anus of." My hero, Mr Steer.
  • Lillibet_2
    Lillibet_2 Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    I did this initally, I was terrified that people who didnt know I was preggers would think I was getting fat so I wanted to hide it until it was a proper pregnant tummy....don't know where I thought I was going to hide it for 6 months...in my pocket?:rotfl: Plus it was pretty obvious as I spent most of the 1st 3 months being sick at every available opportuntiy, and often when there was no opportunity regardless:rolleyes::p
    I finally got over it and then the real downer came, was almost 6 months gone & at my best friends wedding (who hadn't asked me to be a bridesmaid 'cos I was pregnant:mad: and I was therefore a little bit sensitive on the day as only pregnant women can be;):rolleyes:) & chatting to an obviously new mum in the church who asked if I had any children....me: "no, not for another couple of months yet" accompanied by tummy patting on my part...her: "oh really, I thought it was just a really big blouse" followed by lots of giggling...what the f***??!!:confused::mad::eek: I got my own back, I was getting my morning sickness in the evenings & "accidently" threw up over her partners car in the car park:D Actually I had forgotton all about this incident until now!
    Post Natal Depression is the worst part of giving birth:p

    In England we have Mothering Sunday & Father Christmas, Mothers day & Santa Clause are American merchandising tricks:mad: Demonstrate pride in your heirtage by getting it right please people!
  • Becles
    Becles Posts: 13,184 Forumite
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    Enjoy the feeling still being quite slim.

    I'm 29 weeks gone, and I'm seriously huge! The bump is all stuck right out in front, and I've got nothing round the sides which makes it look even bigger.

    I can't fasten up any of my coats now, and my normal oversized t-shirts don't fit, so I've been pinching hubby's to wear round the house.

    I was in the bath last night, with bump sticking out the water which made it look bigger and my eldest came into say goodnight and said "blimey, you're massive Mam" - thanks son :rotfl:
    Here I go again on my own....
  • emma_b_4
    emma_b_4 Posts: 1,292 Forumite
    Lillebet your story made me LOL
    some ppl are so silly!
    thankyou for all your replies, im guilt free now and relieved im not the only one! the ppl who know im pregnant, everyone really at this stage!, have said this week im starting to grow a bit and they can see im pregnant im 15 weeks and presuming thats about right for the dates, i know im not gonna be big or anything but i have a swollen little tummy now i cant stop touching it!!
  • crispeater
    crispeater Posts: 1,072 Forumite
    i actually wore those hold in knickers once and crikey never again it just shuved the non pregnancy bit over the top lol

    like the others have said, get big and be proud your be amazed at how useful you bump can be :D
    It only seems kinky the first time.. :A
  • I am 27 weeks and finally actually look pregnant.

    Up until aboit 20 weeks it just looked like I had been on the curry and beer the night before!!!

    It's great being pregnant. Be proud!
  • I remember going for my first scan at 20 weeks and I had absolutly no bump whatsoever. I was convinced I wasn't pregnant as I felt so normal. The scan confirmed she was the right size for dates, although when I was in labour, they said she would be smaller than average, she shocked me by turning out to be 8lb 5 1/2 oz!

    Sarah x
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